Gonna have to start a sideblog for system terms we can actually fucking use without offending anyone because I s2g every fucking systerm/sysflag/plural terms/plural flags blog we find is run by antis & I don't wanna use terms associated with people who believe they know how another party's brain works better than they do.
I don't care how your plurality came about, it's not my goddamn business & the amount of harm that comes to people on BOTH sides of the argument because of it massively outweighs the harm endos are allegedly doing by fucking existing. Your life, your brain, not mine. If you think you're protecting anyone by cutting people out because you think you have a right to dictate how they define themselves you're missing the forest for the trees.
Also because it's inevitable someone is gonna try to use it as a gotcha, yes we're traumagenic & diagnosed, not that it should fucking matter with how ungodly nightmarish the medical system is for plural people of any "flavor", or frankly anyone neurodivergent.