I saw this post probably a week ago and have been sitting on it:
the notes were full of people arguing, telling fat people to "not be so sensitive" while we politely requested not be be compared to the grotesque...
the only punchline here is "they can't find beauty in fat people so why would they find beauty in the grotesque..." like...
it's not about fat people not being able to take a joke--it's that we've faced this our entire lives and are used to the bullying and being the punchline of a joke, but would prefer NOT to be.













