#and bad things

[dying-artists]

"The world isn't gonna hold your hand"

But I am. give me your hand, we'll go together :3

[taurgo]

How in God's name did THAT plot point run past multiple writers, show runners, producers, consultants etc. how did nobody stop them. HOW??

absolute biggest fumble I've ever seen

Steve Blackman when I catch you-

[radicaled]

the day before Thanksgiving my mom told me she just got the news that her current chemo regimen isn’t working.  they have a lot of options for other drugs.  i knew this could happen; it happens pretty often with cancer patients.  but it’s still very very very hard.

this may well have been my last Thanksgiving with my mom.

i want to share this because it helps to talk about it, and also to ask that we take a little time to remember to have compassion in the midst of the pandemic.  my family has been very isolated so our Thanksgiving with just my parents, my brother, my partner and i was safe (we also live in the same city so we weren’t really traveling).  but i still felt some guilt for getting together with my family because of the pandemic.

just remember, you don’t know what’s going on in someone’s life.  just because they spent time with family this holiday doesn’t mean they weren’t being safe.  and maybe they weren’t being as safe as they could be, but if my mom had asked me to come over for Thanksgiving and my partner and i hadn’t been isolating as much as we have been, i can honestly say i still would have gone.  

i’m not sure i’m doing a good job explaining my feelings.

i’m not saying that it’s fine for people to be traveling and disregarding safety measures.

i’m saying, take a moment to think about if you are telling people to stay home from a place of self-righteousness.  take time to recognize that there are some people who have put a lot of thought into it and worked to make it safe.  take time to practice a little non-judgement.

it’s not easy to hold both these ideas at once: large family gatherings are irresponsible right now, and also every person is their own human with their own decision-making abilities and their own situation.  again, i’m not saying we shouldn’t be angry, sad, scared that so many people are being irresponsible.  just.....give it a try.

i dunno.  i’m just having a really hard time judging anyone who doesn’t know if they’ll see their loved one again.  maybe that means i’m part of the problem.  i don’t know.  it’s just true.

[hacksawslackjaw]

Baby Tobin and his foster brother, Malachi

ahh, he’s the reason Tobin became such a screw up;;;

[geekwiththeglasses]

90% sure I won't remember most of this semester in a few months.

[hessolo]

Why is No More Sad Songs ft Machine Gun Kelly a thing when Power ft Nicky Minaj could be?

[flawsinmycodes]

let me tell you how mad i am that i missed the old ladies at my work singing to work it by missy elliott because i was off