The woobification of jimmy mcgill is really something. Like, he's not a victim in the same way jesse pinkman or skyler white were and yet the way fans respond to him is almost the same. The way fans respond to jimmy is kinda similar to how most men respond to walter white: they completely ignore what these characters say about themselves in the last episodes of their shows and continue to idolize them based on the narrative they told about themselves throughout the shows: walt does whatever he does for his family and jimmy is a victim of how unfair the world is.
The whole point of the last episodes of better call saul was own up to your mistakes, stop running from your past and your unresolved issues with yourself. Your own actions are what define who you are and what path you'll lead in life. Kim seems to believe they're bad for each other because of who they inherently are and she runs away as a result but by running away and changing who she is doesn't solve anything; it's a parallel to jimmy taking on his saul persona for good.
It's only when she starts to acknowledge what she's done instead of running from it that she starts to heal and eventually goes back to being a lawyer.
But no, the overall understanding seems to be poor little meow meow jimmy who got his life fucked over, if only chuck, HHM, the cartel, lalo, walt didn't exist/the world wasn't so mean to him, then maybe he'd have a chance at being happy.