; something something people seem to subconsciously treat disabilities as curable sickness, whether intentionally or not, and will become bored or defensive of your chronic/consistent disabledness. whether intentionally or not, they will become annoyed when you have yet another flare up, when you are in pain again and again, when your symptoms don't let up, when you cancel plans again and again, when your accommodations don't cure you in the ways they've been taught they should, when the disabilities actually disable you, when you're never not affected. the people can't handle when you >stay< disabled














