Y'know, I love a good Glorfindel reference as much as anyone, but can we talk about how everyone has been sleeping on Lord-of-the-Rings!findel for a minute?
《... a shining figure of white light; and behind it ran small shadowy forms waving flames, that flared red in the grey mist ...》
And:
《... you saw him for a moment as he is upon the other side ...》
My mans out here barely able to contain his own spirit, he's so strong, and we're sleeping on this?
More Glorfindel's spirit on fire appreciation please. 😫🔥💕
To everyone who’s been around to day and who’s had the misfortune of wondering what in the hell has been going on.
Below the cut as this is going to be lengthy af, just for the record.
Simply put: I was not aware, that on a website where the main medium by which people communicate is reblogs, that there were people who assumed that their followers would not reblog their posts.
Sometime last night or this morning, I reblogged a post from elerondo in the form of a family tree - which I mistakenly assumed was a canon depiction, but was in fact, a personal headcanon (a headcanon they did not which to see reblogged at all).
After doing this, as it was still quite early, I continued with my morning roll-call of social media (tumblr, facebook, instagram, snapchat, discord, etc), and proceeded to the bathroom, and then to shower. Upon exiting the shower, as I sat my ass down, wrapped in a towel and drying, I checked my phone again, and noticed at some point in the last hour, I had received a tumblr message - or three to be exact. You see, I couldn’t have noticed this earlier, as I don’t have notifications enabled on any form of social media. I don’t like to be tied to my phone, and I found that when I did previously, I spent more time on my phone than I would have liked.
The messages are as follows:
Now, these could of course be interpreted as polite, however, I personally felt more like this took the tone of a 3rd and final warning, as opposed to a first interaction.
Note: I have never before today spoken to the owner of this blog, as you can tell from the lack of messages prior to this morning.
Now, despite the very stiff tone of those messages, my initial reaction was to immediately delete the post, and to then go back to the message to reply and say that I had done so, only to find that I could send a message back.
I thought several things:
- Maybe they don’t have messages enabled (unlikely as they had sent me a message).
- Maybe they enabled it to send the message and disabled it immediately after (again, unlikely, I told myself, as tumbler would probably has deleted the message or something).
- Maybe I have universal messages enabled, whereas they only have “followers” enabled (which, again, is strange, because I was following them, but still, I thought maybe I didn’t remember the options clearly, and opted to send an ask instead).
The ask would have read something as follows:
The post was deleted. Could you at least tell me why, since I’m not a fan of one-sided conversations that benefit no one, and I can’t seem to send you a message back?
Note: I can’t confirm the exact wording as I didn’t copy the message before sending it.
Note: I thought it funny that the blog wasn’t loading as I went to send the ask from mobile, but let’s all be honest here, who hasn’t experienced technical difficulties with tumblr - especially tumblr mobile?
I thought it was weird, but I was in the bathroom, in the innermost part of our appartment, in a giant building made on concrete. I could be sitting by the window sometimes and not get cell reception, much less expect the wifi to travel all the way down the hall is still function at maximum capacity. So yeah, I let it go.
I got up. I dried my hair. I got dressed. I made my bed and sat down at my computer... But a thought was still nagging at me. The blog was still not loading properly on my phone an hour later, so I loaded the message on my computer. Fine. I checked the blog. Fine. I clicked-through on the pm. Bingo!
Nothing. Or whatever the tumblr message is for “you’re not seeing anything here because you’ve been blocked.”
At this point, I won’t lie, I was pretty insulted. In under an hour, I’d been sassed and blocked by someone I’ve literally never spoken to in my life, for doing nothing more than what’s expected of all of us on this god-forsaken hellsite - reblogging a post.
I was upset - angry, even - but I was nearly content to leave it be. However, going back to my first point that the messages struck me as though they were saying “you should know this.”
So I went back to the post and read it over again... No warning. I checked the tags... No warning. I checked the blog description... No warning. I checked their about page... No warning. I checked their rules page... No warning. Something similar about “interactions” - threads? - but nothing about headcanons. No warning whatsoever that this person didn’t want their headcanons reblogged.
Hence the posts you saw from me here, and on my other blog, regarding the reblog function being the cornerstone of tumblr (and elerondo, more like elerond-no).
I decided to take the matter up with a few friends. I thought, yknow, maybe I’m over-reacting? Maybe I imagined this entire slight? Maybe the message I sent is what made them block me? I don’t even know...
I recounted what happened - to a handful of people now - and each of them weighed in, each of them claiming that they hade never before heard of people not wanting their headcanons reblogged - despite this clearly being what OP was upset about.
Note also that while I made these posts on my own blogs, blogs that were blocked by the OP, I was greeted with notes from a certain thisblogisgettingdeleted.
Now listen, I wouldn’t normally have made a fuss of it, but as this person insta-blocked me (effectively making sure I wouldn’t have a means to reply to them with), but made the very clear effort to make sure I knew they’d seen my messages, I felt rightly insulted.
At this point, I decided that since the only way to communicate with them would be through a blog that wasn’t blocked, I’d need to create a new one, and in order for the message to be posted if they ever replied to it the message would need to be anonymous.
That said, it certainly didn’t come out as nicely as my first message would have:
I made this side-blog for the express purpose to reiterrating my original message, and informing them that they were mistaken in assuming that it was “common knowledge” that people shouldn’t reblog headcanons. And that I thought their manner of going about things was childish at best, though obviously left that part out.
To this, they responded as follows:
Now, I don’t know if everyone is reading this the same way as me, but my first and foremost impression of this, upon reading it was that “first of all, I wasn’t passive-aggressive. I was full-on aggressive,” struck me as an odd choice of words.
Surely, being full-on aggressive shouldn’t be something to brag about?
Note the following “you can’t accept that I blocked you,” preceeded by their creating of a side-blog to not only revisit my blog, but to interact there as well.
Followed closely by myself not being civil for not sending them a simple message... Note the steps I had to go through for them to even get this one.
Here they mention messaging me with their request, and their request not being met... An hour, guys. A single fucking hour - in which I shit you not, I was in the shower. That’s what I was given to respond to this. And yo, that’s the amount of time between when I checked my tumblr. That’s not even guaranteeing they sent me that message right after I switched apps. For all I know it could have been 30 minutes, or less.
Note: “do not reblog my ooc posts if it doesn’t include you,” still does not refer to headcanons, and I foresee them having this exact problem again in the future.
Now I was presumed to be online because I was still reblogging things... A mistake on our dear OPs part. Dears and dolls, if you’ve been following me for any significant period of time, then you know my queue is always full. Ergo, my blog is always running, even when I’m not around.
For this person whom I have never spoken to to assume anything about my life, much less to assume that I’m around to cater to their every whim, frankly astounds me. Even if I was online, which I wasn’t, I wouldn’t necessarily have seen the message right away eg. if I was on my computer and had a dozen or more tabs open, if I was in the process of looking at another blog, which cuts off the tool bar, or whatever other scenario.
Following this post, several comments were added by both OP and a follower of theirs:
After comments like these, I’m supposed to believe that “a message saying [I] have deleted of sth would have sufficed for [them] to unblock?”
Highly. Doubtful.
That said, I took it upon myself to also message the person in these comments, as they clearly weren’t going to waste any more time than OP did in finding out what happened.
As you can see from the following, they fare no better:
Blocked. Again.
Deserved? At this point, I don’t even care.
For those who were around to see it, my response to elerondo’s post was made on my personal dump as it was the only place associated with my main blog that would be able to post it.
For those who didn’t, you can find it HERE, or below:
In the end, I’m not writing this because I want this shit to keep going. I’m writing it because I got a lot of advice from various different people and the truth is this...
TL;DR:
The apology is for those of you who’ve been wondering what’s going on all day, not for the persons involved.
I did not send the message anonymously because I wanted to be anonymous. I really don’t care either way, because what I did was was not wrong. In no way is reblogging a god damn post on tumblr, of all places, wrong. However, the initial response I got, and the confirmation that it was indeed meant to be aggressive, have shown me that elerondo - and likely the company they keep as well - have no interest in being polite, or even in remaining civil, but instead are quick to insult and play the victim.
In essence...
Talk shit.
Get hit.
And if you can’t handle it, you probably shouldn’t be on the internet.
my issue with Aaravos - apart from the fact that i havent seen the show but i would sell my soul for him - is that he embodies exactly the type of inspired look I feel like Erestor would get from Namo and Irmo and this upsets me greatly for reasons I cannot put into words...
I saw a post this morning about how Lotr Show™ blew everyone’s mind by saying it would be about Aragorn’s backstory and leading us to believe it would be about his childhood but it ended up being about the line he is descended from and apparently I neither liked nor reblogged that because now I can’t find it.
In light of several posts I have seen recently erroneously claiming Nienna as one of the Fëanturi, here is a light reminder, from the Valaquenta, from the Silmarillion, that she is not, in fact, one of the Fëanuri:
Second paragraph from the bottom reads as follows:
“The Fëanturi, masters of spirits, are brethren, and they are called most often Mandos and Lórien. Yet these are rightly the names of the places of their dwelling, and their true names are Námo and Irmo.”
No mention of Nienna. Thank you.
Next:
Second paragraph, mid-page, states as follows:
“Mightier than Estë is Nienna, sister of the Fëanturi; she dwells alone.”
Nienna. Fëanturi. Sister.
You’re welcome.
Please, for the love of Eru, get this right.
Not because they are presumed to be close, and all work similarly and in some manner with some form of healing that they are all masters of spirits.
edit: this is not aimed at anyone in particular, because apparently sharing information means attacking people now.
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