She deserves better than you, you've had years to prove me wrong and haven't shown you deserve her at all
I’m going to go out on a limb here and assume you’re the same anon who messaged my fiancée @hopelesslydimwitted a few years ago to tell them that they can’t date an atheist because I’ll force my lack of religion onto them. (Which I never did and still don’t, because I respect their choice of religion and they respect my lack of religion.)
I’m also going to assume that because you messaged me on anon, you PROBABLY didn’t want Baillie to know! But if you want to judge our relationship so bad, shouldn’t you get off of anon and talk to both of us in a group chat or something? It’s much more efficient at finding out how much we “deserve each other” than sending anon asks on tumblr, and you don’t have to wait “years” either.
1) If you’re trying to judge how much I deserve Baillie through what I post on tumblr, you’re straight out of luck, because I’m not the type of person who flaunts off my relationship 24/7. So you probably don’t have enough evidence to support your claim anyway.
1.1) This leads me to the possibility that you could also just be a random anon trying to start shit and aren’t related to that previous anon at all. If so, props for trying, it didn’t work. Ignore the rest if this is true.
1.1.1) On the chance that you are that same anon, then you’ve known Baillie for at least 4.5years, and you should REALLY try talking to them about your concerns instead of randomly messaging me, and if you’re still not satisfied, then the three of us can have a group chat.
2) Have you been like lurking on my blog or something to go “you’ve had years to prove me wrong”? I have months where I don’t even show up on here.
3) If your claim is “if you really loved them, you’d have converted to Christianity for them,” fuck off. Here’s the thing. I was Catholic when we met, some things happened, and I lost my faith. They saw this and their faith got stronger. Our relationship works because we both respect each others’ decision and don’t try to force our beliefs onto the other. Trust me, if that were happening, from either side, we wouldn’t be together.
4) If your claim is “If you really loved them, you’d have moved closer already,” fuck off. Tell that to my homophobic parents who want me in their house til I’m 30 and tell that to the economy. I can barely afford in-state tuition, and I love Baillie, but I’m not going to go down being in debt for years on a teacher salary. Besides, we’ve been LDR forever, we know how to make it work.
5) If your claim is “If you really loved them, you would post more about them all the time,” fuck off. It’s our relationship, we have every right to decide how public or private it is.
6) If your claim is (to quote Queen B) “If you liked it then you should have put a ring on it,” we did. Back in November.
7) If your claim is “You should break up because same sex relationships put you in Hell,” maybe lead with that next time. It has no effect because I’m atheist and don’t believe in Hell, but y’know. It’s a better attention getter.
8) If your claim is not listed, send another message and we’ll see.
I hope this cleared up some of your questions, anon!