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Corazón anónimo.

[arvtisticfra]

Abbronzata ☀️

[tinta-y-cometas]

Blackpaper: Anónimo autor.

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Corazón anónimo

[lavinxzy]

Oii lav, como vai?? Poderia indicar meditações guiadas pra quem tá revisando a vida do 0?

Meditações de "Revisão" (Neville Goddard)

Busque especificamente por "Neville Goddard Revision Technique" ou "Técnica da Revisão".

Elas guiam você a voltar no final do seu dia (ou em eventos específicos do passado) e reescrevê-los mentalmente até que a nova versão pareça a única verdade.

Por que funciona: Ajuda a "limpar" os traumas e as crenças limitantes que você está tentando deixar para trás nessa nova fase.

SATS (State Akin To Sleep)

Essa não é uma meditação guiada comum, mas sim o estado ideal para revisar a vida. Procure por subliminais de vida revisada que tenha um som de fundo como chuva. Recomende esse:

Colocar o corpo em relaxamento profundo enquanto você narra para si mesma a sua nova vida.

Se você gosta de criar histórias, use esses áudios de fundo enquanto faz sua "fanfic mental" da sua vida revisada.

Canais recomendados (YouTube): Procure por nomes como Brian Scott (Reality Revolution) ou, em português, busque por meditações de Limpeza de Crenças Limitantes.

Se você está revisando do zero, a ansiedade pode tentar aparecer dizendo que é "muita coisa". Não tente revisar 20 anos em uma noite.

Comece revisando o seu hoje.

Antes de dormir, ouça uma dessas meditações e imagine que tudo o que aconteceu de "ruim" hoje, na verdade, aconteceu de forma maravilhosa.

Com o tempo, esse hábito vai "vazar" para o seu passado mais antigo e tudo vai começar a se alinhar.

[solxs]

La vida no espera a que estés bien, levántate todos los días y sigue adelante.

— Corazón Anónimo.

[jlaudio]

in your opinion which one is the dom and which one is the sub between matt and jay

WOW thank you for coming to me for this i have very very passionate opinions on it and in general i think it's a very interesting lens through which to analyze character dynamics. ok im going to feel pretty stupid writing so much for the fucking my friend look like nirvavva show but im serious about it. Click read more for my wisdom on the dom/sub mattjay world many are seemingly blind to

okay so. kind of objectively speaking In the very established dynamic they have in the show matt is the dom and jay is the sub. like its just written that way. every single episode matt plans and jay nods along. matt tells jay to stop and jay stops. they're very comfortable in this dynamic because they just function this way. matt sees himself as an extremely capable person and he doesn't necessarily dismiss jay, but he just feels he should be in charge for both of them. matt wants to fulfill jay's necessities to the point he can't stand jay looking for support and safety or even attention in someone else and jay listens to matt's plans with very few exceptions, and when he doesn't that's something he does out of his personal benefit or selfishness. ultimately, when matt fucks up and even when jay has his doubts, jay does go along with it and forgives matt for literally just about anything. when jay does tell matt what to do or whatever, he tends to do it to stop matt from doing something and he tends to do this physically. neither matt nor jay have any sort of charm that seduces the other into these roles; they've naturalized their relationship this way without thinking about it most of the time.

what bothers me a little is that people seem to believe this dynamic is better the other way around. almost everything you find about mattjay is people going "well but what if JAY was in control this time" and i feel like that's just throwing the established dynamic away. jay gets urges to lead sometimes but he does it specifically because it is matt's role, not because he wants to fill it himself. also a lot of people mistake matt's willingness to do literally anything for jay and his need for love and approval as submission, which is just completely wrong. the way matt wants to have jay is to be at jay's service, but doing so in a very domineering way still. he wants jay's contentness in this situation and he freaks out at the possibility of jay seeking fulfillment anywhere else. dom/sub dynamics aren't just about The dom hurts/uses the sub and they both get off on it. you're allowed to do that of course but a solid dom/sub dynamic Has to be intrinsically emotional too because the sub is entirely relinquishing control and trusting it to the dom, who is now in charge of the enjoyment and safety of the parties involved. matt and jay do not have sex in canon nor do they see this as relevant, so Everything we can use to learn about their dynamic is exclusively emotional. i find it ridiculous to specifically revert this dynamic for a smut fic or whatever. im guessing theres an attempt at subversion but the concept of a frantically obsessed dom feels interesting enough already! and god the idea of dom jay+sub matt is SO. so widespread right now it makes me want to rip my hair out. you're being handed an established relationship on a silver platter... please...

tl;dr. in every little moment of every episode matt says and jay does. at the end of the day jay is excessively trusting and submissive by nature to matt whose actions are all motivated by him wanting to be a service dom to jay. okay? okay.