#anonsys

[anon-sys]

General update from us :)

We met a wonderful person who we can now happily say is our partner, and thankfully they took the news about us being a system very well. They've actually been with a system before, so it wasn't a big deal.

Our last exam for the semester is today, and a five year old has been the only one studying for it. :')

We're going to try and see a psychologist sometime this month or next month to get a psychological evaluation and potentially try and see a specialist who specializes in dissociative disorders. Our mother is finally listening to us which is, thankfully, making all of this possible.

Happy holidays to all!

[anon-sys]

Wonderful updates from us!!

Our communication lately has been amazing clear. Knocking on wood so I dont jinx it, but seriously! Usually it's like trying to listen to what another alter is saying while underwater and behind a glass wall, but recently we've been having full blown conversations, completely clear and understandable.

The only things we can't all seem to get a hold of is what to eat literally any time of day, but that's fairly normal for us anyways.

Dissociations been up and there's still lots of gaps in my memory, but I'm grateful to actually have some clear communication going on.

[anon-sys]

So we've made a friend through a dating app, and we're seeing how we match as friends before we try dating. They seem really nice and everyone in the system so far seems to think so too, but we're too scared at the moment to bring up that we are a suspected system.

The last time we opened up about being a system to someone who wanted to date us, they reacted very negatively and gave up on us there and then. Because of this, I'm nervous to bring up the fact that we are a system. It's so hard to relive a situation that has a 50/50 chance of being good this time, or being as bad as last time.

Advice is welcome, though i probably won't bring it up to them unless it's relevant to a conversation.