Gifts provide a tangible proof that you are thinking of them and they'll cherish the sentimental ones the most. They are very low maintenance, don't need validation (or at least they act like they don't), time etc. But a gift is hard to argue with and it's all about building trust with them.
Giving: Acts of Service. If they love you, they will do anything for you. Hint, hint.
Anthy
Receiving: Quality time and Touch.
A little needy once they are comfortable. Words of affirmation will be appreciated, but moreso when you already proved you really, truly, for sure, no lie, no cap, fr fr, like them. They might struggle with the idea.
Giving: Touch, Words of affirmation, Gifts. You are not getting out of it. You will be praised, the gifts will be delivered and they want a hug.
Edward
Receiving: Touch, Acts of Service. He wants to be listened to and heard, and to be able to be completely honest. His real love language is acceptance.
Giving: Gifts. To him it's the easiest form of showing appreciation. Yes, that means you can re-enact that scene. You should.
the only acceptable answer is that she's not acknowledging anthy's victimhood at the hands of kyouichi in order to preserve anthy's dignity (because who wants to be pitied or treated like a victim?)
but even that explanation can be questionable so shape up utena
