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#NewMusicVideo #Top40Artist #AnyeElite #LGBTUrbanCharts

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This is hot! Yes Lawt!

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#Top40Artist #AnyeElite #LGBTUrbanCharts #Repost @anyeelite with @repostapp. ・・・ Full Song In BIO Link #funnmoneyrock #anyeelite

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#Pushin #LikeABihAndANuh @anyeelite #AnyeElite #FunnyMoney #Freeverse 😉

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🍎Thank you all so much for even giving my music a chance. I appreciate that! My last #MusicMonday post (for this week) is inspired by "Pushin" by @anyeelite Full version coming soon. YOUTUBE - TeamJoshee #FunnyMoney #AnyeElite #Atlanta #LHHATL

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Meet Comedy's Newest Rising Star!

I love to laugh ,but then again who doesn't? It's makes you forget your troubles and some doctors even say it's good for your overall health.  On this particular day I really needed to laugh my best friend was in the hospital and some looney with a gun next door decided to take a hostage making it very difficult for me to even leave the house.  To top it all off I was also in the doghouse with my boyfriend.

After negotiating with law enforcement to allow me to walk through their crime scene. I began making my way west on Santa Monica Blvd to see comic and fellow "Gaylebrity" Sampson McCormick. Shout out to Dwight O'Neal for coining that phrase.  The gig was in WEHO which caused me a brief moment of anxiety because my short time in L.A has informed me that despite it being the official gay neighborhood I'm much more suited for less pretentious settings.

However, I''ll tell you this.  There are few sounds like a packed hall full of people not just laughing, but stupid laughing. I met one other friend at the venue but for a short time all of us there were connected. It was an incredible evening and I found myself telling everyone I knew about “this hilarious stand up routine I just saw.” I told friends, family, and even a handful of strangers while I was waiting in line at the Farmer’s Market by the grove. I couldn't help myself. People needed to know how funny Sampson McCormick is.

 So funny in fact that he's being considered for a grammy nomination.  Comedy legend Bill Cosby is among his competition this year, but to quote Sampson "Mr. Cosby better hold onto his pudding pops!"  Similar to Cosby, McCormick has an exceptional knack for connecting with the audience via his relatable and charming southern persona.  He's also easy on the eyes which I'm sure doesn't hurt.  I can't wait to see this guy in a movie or tv show which I'm pretty sure is going to happen in the near future.  In the meantime you can check him out in the video below; he also has an audio recording that can be purchased here.  Keep up the great work Sampson and good luck on that Grammy!

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Four Tips on How To Deal With Mean People.

Unfortunately there are just some people who have been wired to be emotionally destructive to themselves and others.  Typically we just call these people mean. The good news is that with practice they become pretty easy to deal with and lucky for you I've had a lot of practice.  Here are my 4 tips on how to to deal with mean people.

1. Acknowledge Your Pain.

The key is not to deny what we are feeling, but rather to accept it. Take a moment to be mindful and narrate your emotions: This embarrassment is excruciating. I am so frightened right now. Hang in there with unpleasant feelings at least long enough to acknowledge them.

Often we don’t want to admit we are hurt by another person’s meanness; we want to let it go without letting it get to us. If you can do this, more power to you. But if you can’t, that’s okay, too. You will survive the discomfort of your hurt feelings. It is perfectly normal to feel bad when someone wounds you.

2. Get Away.

This of course I'm sure if obvious and you've no doubt thought about this.  It can be difficult if this person is a family member, co-worker, or friend.  The bottom line is that you don't need people like that in your life.  My main reasoning for writing this article is to prevent current victims from becoming someones villain in the future.  As soon as you can stop subjecting yourself to that behavior the better off you will be!  So if you have a way out take it!  Hurt people hurt people and that leads me to my second tip.

3. Remember to be compassionate above all!

I used to have a friend whom I considered really close to me but couldn't understand why he would take every opportunity to belittle me or hurt me.  At first I would try responding with little quips of my own but that didn't really make me feel any better cause I could feel that toxic energy rising in me and I know that's not who I wanted to be.

Instead I started fighting fire with water.  I began using a loving-kindness meditation using phrases like “May you be happy. May you be healthy and strong. May you be free from suffering” while imagining the person who tried to hurt me.

4. Lions Do Not Concern Themselves With The Opinion of Sheep.

I learned that my "friend's main issue with me is that he struggled with finding original ideas of his own and resented my creativity.  He also didn't like the way that I was able to freely express myself.  Do you think that I stopped expressing myself?  Hell No!  I kept doing me and at the end of the day that 's the best thing that you can do.  If you are so inclined you might want to ask...

Of course there are numerous ways to deal with mean spirited people.  These are just a few tools to get you started.  Good luck with your situation.  And as always please feel free to share your experiences in the comment section below. 

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Bitch, We getting Old Girl! Mean Girls Turns 10

Ugh I hate when milestones occur to remind me that I'm not 12 anymore it really is depressing!  So I don't really have much to say I'm late for my weekly visit to Chuckie Cheese!  Happy Anniversary or whatever.