#aphobes

[greenteaandtattoos]

"If you're cis and aro and/or ace, you don't get to reclaim the word queer". Next time I see an aphobe say that, I’m rearranging their bones. 

I understand that not everyone is comfortable with reclaiming queer, but you don't get to dictate who in the community can and can't reclaim it.

[thediamondarcher]

aphobes are so ridiculous because they'll be like "you make being aroace/aro/ace your whole personality" and then when you try to talk about something else they just disappear. If you're going to complain about something at least accept that you're the one getting involved

[thenixkat]

[id: A screenshot of a google screenshot sent through a PM from @canonqueers

cannonqueers

This is a blog dedicated to LGBTQ characters in media! 🏳️‍🌈

Not following each other

Screenshot inside screenshot is of a Google AI Overview on the question 'how can aromantic people date'

/end id]

[id: Text between two users in a PM

@canonqueers: since u asked for a screenshot (this doesn’t mention anything about romantic attraction)

thenixkat: HAHAHAAH not you using AI overveiw like that's any fucking kind of accurate that's fucking hilarious. hahahahah oh god that made my day. that's so fucking funny

@canonqueers: i hate AI as much as the next guy but where do u think they get those definitions from 💀 it’s taken from multiple sources across the net

/end id]

Not the ai overview that's fucking hilarious. But this dingus sealion thinks I should waste my breath trying to educate them.

edit: We got into some pedojacketing from them. Plus confirmation of their aphobia and belief that aroaces can't be in relationships b/c aroace people dont feel attraction. And that it would be wrong for aroace people to date people they arent romantically/sexually attracted to. Which is yikes.

also they legit don't verify that what folks submit to their blog is accurate, they just go by whatever notes the submitter sends and a quick ai overview.

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[evil-era]

i’ve noticed that since i came out as aro and people didn’t accept me i stopped telling them about the things i like and i kinda- became more cold. so…people are stuck with an old version of me just because they couldn’t accept me not loving people romantically 💀

[aya-corolla]

[melovibes57]

[ace-culture-is]

:> I will start responding to hate with memes. And a block. Thank you.

[spitefularoandbi]

This asshole said this:

To me on another blog about a queerplatonic headcanon I was having.

Five hours later:

Idk. You tell me how difficult it is because apparently you're an expert. Fucking asswipe.