hello!! i hope it is ok to stop by! for the selfship game, can i ask for hazelnut latte and pistachio tiramisu with whoever you'd like?
Omg that's so considerate of you to reach out!! You didn't have to do that at all but thank you so much!! For both questions, I'll answer for Appleboxe (my selfship for Caleb from lads) :3
pistachio tiramisu : when push comes to shove, who is more protective of the other?
Caleb without a doubt. I can be as possessive and territorial and protective all I'd like, but there's no level I could reach that would even match Caleb's 😭 And I'm so used to Caleb being like this that I just kinda go along with it (I like how fussy he is over me). Caleb goes out of his way to make sure he knows everyone that I know, we share each other's locations (his suggestion ofc), he tries to do everything for me to the point of it becoming a little frustrating- y'know, classic Caleb things. I recognize that Caleb's protectiveness comes from a place of fear, but that isn't exactly something I enjoy seeing him spiral into. Teaching him how to just take a breath and step back is more for him than it is for me. It takes a bit of time for the two of us to compromise on the difference between what's being protective and what's stunting independence, but we work it out in the end! :3
hazelnut latte : in another life / au, do you think you and your partner would find each other again? how would it happen? are there any aspects of your relationship that would be drastically different or do you think ( mostly ) everything would be the same?
I've thought a lot about this and the answer always comes down to Caleb and I being together from the start no matter the setting. There is no foundation with Caleb if there's not an immediate bond. Across different lives, we're the same as we've always been. Depending on the au, there could be more or less strain and conflict but it'll always be us.
