arcadiasilver replied to your post: “it wasn’t even intentional is the thing, it just panned out that way...”:
And the other trope has a nasty habit of turning the waiting party into a passive, shallow character who's only role is to wait, tend, wait again
i mean word i don’t want to shame ppl or shit on that kind of thing cause like i said i do understand the appeal of it to a degree, but it does tend to turn south in ways that make me uncomfortable, mainly w m/f ships
i’m rly not here for “little lady waiting for big strong soldier man to come home”