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4th Anniversary

Today remark 4th anniversary of my brother wedding. Happy anniversary!

Me and my brother family in April 2025. My sister-in-law had pregnant at this point. Yet strangely the pregnant belly wasn't visible in this photo.

New Addition

In early January 2025, my father told me that my sister in-law got pregnant again. This make my father will have the second grandchildren, as well the final. My brother had stated the second child will be the final child. Since I won't have any single child (I'm practicing childfree), so my parents have accept the fact they will have two grandchildren only.

The second child was born on July 30, 2025 via C-section. My brother gave his second child name Anson. Like what?!!!!! Are you serious give weird ass yet hard-to pronounce name?! But alas, my brother and my sister-in-law insisted the name was the good one.

For now, Anson grew healthy without any problem. As long as I know, Anson doesn't have any allergy.

Searching for School

By June 2026, Ansel will be almost three years old. It mean Ansel will start the journey of education. At first, my brother had decided to enroll Ansel to Sedaya Bintang school. This decision was made after my brother search out the suitable school from several options. Distance from the house was placed for one of important criteria. Also, there was large sum of discount for those enroll the child on academic year 2026-2027.

On September 2025, Ansel got tested by the school. Sadly, he failed to pass the test due to Ansel had bad mood at that time. Me and my mother prayed asking Ansel got accepted. It worked, the pray was granted. On October 11, 2025, a psychologist testing Ansel. Unlike the previous test, the second test was conducted by a -very patient psychologist. This time the psychologist said Ansel was ready to study at preschool. The psychologist citing reason Ansel's intelligence had already above average than typical two years old child.

Despite the result, in the end Sedaya Bintang said otherwise. Ansel failed to get accepted. In eventually, on October 30, my brother enrolled Ansel to TKK BPK Penabur 246. Looks like finally my brother found the right school. This time Ansel got accepted to study at Toddler class for academic year 2026-2027. Plus, the tuition cost was cheaper, only about six million IDR. WHAT A BARGAIN!!! In midst of rising child rearing cost and economic slowdown, got accepted at prestigious kindergarten like BPK Penabur 246 was very awesome.

Honestly, Ansel was too old to start education at Toddler class. But my brother no longer had any choice anymore due to regulation.

Ansel's Birthday

On October 6, 2025, my brother held Ansel's birthday at his house. The second birthday was held in small scale due to my parents and my sister-in-law family were unable to attend for some reasons. Despite this, my brother and my sister-in-law were excited to celebrate it. Never mind, at least I able to attend. The birthday party was finished with everyone had dinner.

Unfortunately, Ansel didn't cooperative, so there were very few photos. My brother didn't even had a chance to take photo together with me.

Here is me with the birthday cake.

That's the update from me.

[handisuyadi]

3rd Anniversary

Today remark 3rd anniversary of my brother wedding. Happy anniversary! Apologized for lack of any post for celebrating 2nd anniversary because I completely forgot at that time. Thankfully, in this year I remember to create it.

New Addition The number of family members had since increased into 3. In March 2023, my brother announced that my sister-in-law was pregnant. Finally I got a nephew from my brother. One month later, my brother held gender reveal event at my house. The event was held with very simple ceremony, cut a cake. I said very simple because there wasn't any elaborate decoration and event apart of cut a cake. There wasn't dress code for attendances too. My grandmother and her sisters were attended the gender reveal. During the event, it was revealed that my brother gonna to have a son. Unfortunately, I don't have any single photo from the event so I can't share the photo.

Through the pregnancy, my sister-in-law never suffer any health problem. Safe to say, my sister-in-law managed to pregnant safely until DOB finally came. On October 6, 2023, my brother and my sister-in-law welcoming a son. His name is Ansel Suyadi. His Chinese name is 苏昌安. He was born via Caesarean. Visually (only valid when he was just born), he looks like my brother, though he has a nose similar with my sister-in-law's. Overtime, he become looks more similar with my sister-in-law. He is very active baby. Overtime, I could see he leaning into extrovert guy. He never feel scared to meet everyone. As result, he always excited to meet everyone, particularly male. Justified, as he rarely interact with any male since my brother often work at Wanaherang. The sole exception is his maternal great-grandmother. I often heard report from my brother that he often cried every time he see maternal great-grandmother. Though this problem had subsided by the time he reach age twelve months old.

I able to see what kind of things that become his favorite. Carried by my brother, car (include any trip with car), get ridden with stroller, balloon, and climbing the stairs (with supervision of adult). The latter make my parents worried, citing reason safety concern. Don't worry, so far there isn't any injury case because of climbing the stairs.

Change

My sister-in-law historically against the usage of servant and babysitter. Almost all of her family relatives aren't using servant. Near the DOB, my mother and my brother became concerned with the struggle on handling housework after give birth. Fortunately, my sister-in-law changed her mind. She accept the idea using servant. My mother decided to give one servant from my home, whose just work at my home for few weeks, to help my sister-in-law. Since then, my sister-in-law had changed the servant twice time for some reason. The first one was sacked off after caught of stealing babysitter's money. The second one was resigned due to get sick from pregnant. She left in good term, however. So far, she able to get along with the servant, so none of former servants left because of strained relationship.

In spite of short height, since 2022 my sister-in-law able to drive car. My sister-in-law able to acquire the skill quickly. When my brother isn't at Bandung, my sister-in-law able to go outside by herself. This skill is very useful, as take a ride with online taxi is ridiculously expensive.

That's the update about my brother and his family. Once again, happy 3rd anniversary!

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1st Anniversary

Today remark 1st anniversary of my brother wedding. Happy anniversary! 

It has been a year since my brother’s wedding. Times files so fast. My parents quite surprised when I told them about my brother’s wedding almost close to one year anniversary. Honestly, I also have feel surprised too. I feel like

How about their family? So far they live happily in their own house. After marriage, my sister-in-law decided to resign from PwC to focus entirely as SAHM. Gradually, her cooking skill significantly improved. So far she really enjoy her times as SAHM. My brother continue to work. They must be happily married, as I never hear any conflict from them. 

Even though now my brother live separately, my brother always keep in touch with me and my parents. They frequently spare time to visit my parents during weekend. At least one time per week will be scheduled to visit my parents. Of course not forget to visit my sister-in-law’s family regularly.

How about children? Perhaps this is the most asked question by some of my relatives. Many my relatives have asked if my sister-in-law already pregnant. It really understandably, as my sister-in-law hasn’t announce pregnancy. For now, they have stated both of them agree wouldn’t have a child soon. My brother has stated they definitely won’t practice childfree. 

So that’s the update from me. Hopefully anyone whose read these article have nice day.