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[baconandvibrators]

Just a point that I don’t see made enough about New Year’s resolutions: THEY ARE A SHIT IDEA FOR MOST PEOPLE!

Let me explain my thinking. At least in the northern hemisphere where I live we are deep in winter. Just had the shortest day of the year. If you’re anything like me your regular depression is compounded by seasonal depression. And honestly? A random date change won’t make any meaningful difference in my ability to get shit done. So what happens is we try to push through that, maybe do ok for a little bit cause we’re riding the new year high, and then inevitably fail. And feel like shit cause we failed. But like, that shit ain’t your fault. Now is a TERRIBLE time of year for most people to try to make big life changes. And this is nothing on the way we tend to make awful goals for ourselves. So maybe don’t do that to yourself? Be kind to yourself and save those self improvement goals for spring. Make a first day of spring resolution this year instead.

[citytogalaxy]

Completely unironically, Mad Max Fury Road should have won best picture at the 2016 oscars instead of the totally forgettable “Spotlight” for the simple facts that it busted down hollywood’s door by creating a movie with next to nil green screen, had a majority of screentime taken up by women spanning different ages, featured an incredible performance by both charlize theron and tom hardy as equals while marketing itself as another run of the mill *boys* action movie and instead actually creating a lasting and powerful commentary on bodily autonomy, PTSD, and pissing off a lot of illiterate misogynists and THAT is why I will never take the academy seriously as an institution that supposedly recognizes above-the-benchmark talent in the film industry

[cassandra-pentughasst]

Last Lineagraph Meme

I was tagged by @merilsell and I'll tag @dickeybbqpit @apostatetabris and @ you

Ellana spares Cassandra a glance beside her and admires the way she looks in her dress uniform, smaller without her usual armour but the fabric straining in areas that leave no doubt about the strong and capable physique hiding underneath. Something that she hasn’t been able to appreciate for over a week now in any context, let alone her preferred. Cassandra smiles softly at her, and Ellana doesn’t miss the twitch of her fingers, knows that they probably itch to reach out and find their home entwined with her own as much as hers do. She wonders briefly when it was that she became so sentimental.

[kinkshamingcowboy]

blousemouse replied to your post: slash shippers: i support gays no doubts about it....

Killing stalking is portraying an abusive relationship, no doubt. And there are certainly some fans who ship them. BUT there are also some fans who like it for the horrory part of it. Let’s face it, there are absolutely some unhealthy LGBT relationships, and it’s not good to go around showing only the good ones and saying that’s what it all is and will be. (Definitely though, I think those graphic NSFW scenes are absolutely NOT necessary and no one should ship these two)

you’re absolutely right, but the issue comes in mainly (in my opinion) when you factor in how the story itself romanticizes the abuse. i’m not implying that unhealthy lgbt relationships don’t exist, because they do, but a (supposedly) straight author should not be writing about abuse in lgbt relationships because they would have no experience in that matter. said straight author (though this applies to any author) should definitely not be turning that abuse & violence into a love story.

so you’re right! it’s important for lgbt people to know & be aware that abuse is not limited to cishet relationships, and to know the signs of it & how to get out of such situations. killing stalking is not trying to send that message, though. 

[thisismeetrying]

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[whaleofasale]

Current feeling whilst studying for finals