#aroace kenma

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Me: ugh why do people always headcanon emotionally illiterate and stoic people as a-spec :(

Also Me: *headcanons the most cold emotionless socially awkward characters of all time as a-spec*

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How I think being in a queer platonic relationship with Kenma Kozume would be like (gn! reader)

English is not my first language so I'm sorry for any mistake. Hope you guys like it and I might have gotten carried away lol <3

Kuroo definitely helped you two get together and teases both of you (mainely Kenma) a lot

Very perceptive but also kinda cluless so I think he'd rather sit and talk about each others boundaries instead of waiting to see how you would react to somethings

Kenma will let you play in his switch almost everytime you ask if his not using it

If you like gaming as well he will make you buy a switch (or buy it for you) so you two can play games together

Will get mad if you are better than him on mario kart and will get salty cuz of it, but nothing a couple cuddles can't fix (only if you are comfortable with it)

Animal crossing dates!!!!!

If you don't know how to play Kenma will happily teach you how to while you sit on his lap (if that's something you like)

But if you don't like gaming he does not mind as long as you let him play

Loves when you cuddle him while watching him play

Not a huge fan of Just dance but would end up playing with you and getting competitive

Now when it comes to volleyball...

Kenma would be very happy if you went to his games

Would totally drag you to play it with him if Kuroo was draging him

Speaking of the rooster boy y'all would be reaaaaaally close

You'd have to hear Kenma complaning about Lev

After a hard practice Kenma would like to cuddle with you while watching something

Nappping together <3

Not a fan of pda but likes to hold your hand if he's not gaming, otherwise walking close to you works as well

Would 100% curse someone if they disrespect you or yours relationship

Being friends with Bokuto, Akaashi and Hinata >>>>>

I think Kenma might be a bit shy when it comes to talking about you to his team but would end up doing it if Kuroo asks him to do so

Not a big fan of outside dates but would do it if you ask to (while complaning but we all know he does not really mean it)

likes going to cafes tho

Hates cooking but likes to do it with you

A great listener but isn't very good with advises

Might get shy or cocky with complements depending on what you say

If that’s something you are comfortable with he might give you cheek kisses and also likes to receive it

Studying with Kenma would be pretty peaceful and helpful but I think he might lose his patience if his tutoring you

If you decided to live together your house would be so cool and fancy omg I can't

Doesn't mind if you wear his clothes and might end up wearing yours as well

Playful fights would be pretty common

If you are feeling sad or insecure Kenma would 100% get out of his comfort zone to make you feel better

Gossiping together >>>>

The best person to talk about your queer experience with (but you might end up crying with him who knows)

Yaku would definitively fight people if they insist in saying you and Kenma are a romantic couple (Kuroo would too)

Likes to record you two just to have it on his phone

Would MELT if you played with his hair

I don't think he would like to call you pet names like he preferes to call you by your nickname and wouldn't mind if you called him Ken or something

Would tell you everything after he's comfortable with you

Having to beg him to sleep in a decent time but if you also likes to go to sleep late than it's a lost cause

If having kids is something you’d like to Kenma would definitely take it into consideration

When his mental health is getting bad doing something he likes with you would make him feel better

Imagine playing board games with him during a rainy day while drinking hot chocolate omg I'm soft now

Would 100% start to watch, read or play something you like if you ask him to

A big ass hater of amatonormativity

Would always try to help you

Likes to buy you random stuff

In general I think that being Kenma's qp partner would be pretty chill and fun

Sorry for taking so long to post this lol. I hope you guys enjoyed and feel free to request more fics :)

Here's my masterlist:

Heyyy this is my masterlist. I write qpr fics, where the reader is in a queer platonic relationship with the choosen character. Here's the d

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Haikyuu Gender & Sexuality Headcanons Part 2!

-Kuroo: He’s in a QPR with Kenma. He’s bi, but always puts Kenma over anyone he’s dating.

-Yaku: He’s a trans boy and uses he/him pronouns. He’s really insecure about about his height, and hate it when someone (*cough* Lev *cough*) mentions it. He’s aromantic and omnisexual.

-Kenma: Aroace and is in a queer platonic relationship with Kuroo. They’re nonbinary and use they/them pronouns. This is my all time favorite Haikyuu headcanon and I can and will fight you on it.

-Lev: Pansexual agender. He uses any pronouns.

-Oikawa: They’re a trans man, and use he/they pronouns. He’s bisexual and is dating Iwaizumi. 

-Iwaizumi: He’s so gay for Oikawa.

-Maddog: Aromantic and asexual, and the first time he saw Iwaizumi he experienced such strong aesthetic attraction that he doubted his aromantism. 

-Bokuto: Demisexual, and has been in love with Akaashi since forever.

-Akaashi: Polysexual, and dating Bokuto. Bokuaka for life.

Comment if you want a part 3!

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I know I normally post Haikyuu stuff, but let me rant for a sec. 

When I came out as aroace for the first time ever to my therapist, the first thing they said was “are you sure this isn’t just a phase?”. When I came out to one of my friends, they stopped telling me about their dating life even though I had said I enjoyed hearing about it on multiple occasions. More than half of the people I’ve come out to didn’t even know what aromantism was. There’s romance in almost every single book, and I wish they had a warning on them so that I didn’t have to be punched in the face with it every time I want to read. Today a couple people tried to convince me that platonic cuddling was weird. As I’m writing this the word aromantic is underlined in red, signifying that it is not a real word.

 All these little pieces of who I am are constantly being invalidated, and I’m sick of it. I’m sick of being surrounded by romance and sex, when I’ll never understand it. I’m sick of being told that people in the aspec community don’t experience oppression. I know that our oppression isn’t as up front and violent as the oppression of others, OK? I know. But we are constantly being told that we are broken, or that we aren’t real, or that we are emotionless, or that we don’t belong in the lgbtq+ community. 

The thing is, underneath all the internalized aphobia, I know that I’m real. That it may be scary, but I don’t experience this thing that so many others do. I’ll never get a romantic partner, but that my friendships are just as important.

I know that I’m not just valid, I’m valuable.