sultrysirens replied to your post:there is a girl who i work with, sweet summer...
Maybe talk to her about your personal experiences a bit? Oh jeez those situations are always tough, I’ve seen many large age gap relationships and very few of them were happy and healthy.
Yeah, I just want so badly to get my point across in a way that doesn't come off as condescending or rude, and in a way that she might actually listen to me.
Also I want to literally shield bash that asshole who she is interested in, because it seems like he's showing some sort of interest in return. He's a pastor/was a pastor though, and I just don't know if I can make her understand that just because he can speak pretty about god that doesn't make him a "good guy."