side note my roommate is slightly arophobic but it’s not like her fault? i don’t think she knows about the split attraction model. normally it wouldn’t bother me because people technically are entitled to their own opinions and experiences, but also she seems to like. lecture a lot on the topic of liking someone/loving someone, sexual attraction, etc. which rubs me the wrong way because she unintentionally projects her arophobia into what she’s talking about. like she has good intentions, but.
i dunno.








