I used to identify as pansexual: but I never had any sexual feelings towards anyone. I really struggled for a long time, trying to make myself feel sexually (and romantically, I later realized I was gray-aro) attracted to people. I started to think, well maybe i'm not pan because I don't feel sexually attracted to girls. that's what I was taught relationships meant, touching and kissing. but eventually I started playing around with the idea of asexualism, and that's were I am today. Proud Ace!!!
I am so proud of you! Figuring out your identity can be a process and I’m really glad that you found an identity that you are proud of and feel comfortable with. That’s very important!
-Mod Primaria














