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He’s a boost of energy for you, that’s for sure. On days when you’re feeling down but don’t want to talk about it, he’ll immediately try to cheer you up with your favorite food, a favorite movie or just being cute with you. He won’t force you to go out if you don’t feel like it.
You liked to be recognized; he’ll give you that recognition! If you do something you’re really proud of, believe me, he’s going to be your number one fan. On the other side, he likes to be appreciated, so make sure to remind him how much you care for him and all the things he does for you.
He tends to be very open with his feelings and reacts before thinking things through. (”Hey lets take a trip tomorrow!”) but you help him settle his ideas down and actually think them through (”Maybe we should schedule a trip and actually be able to enjoy it?”). You’re going to be very helpful in his decision making!
He’s very blunt and talkative, something that you will appreciate because there won’t be any awkward silence between you two and the bluntness is good for you; you hate when people always throw you in a loop.
At times, you might seem a little aloof and slightly detached from any feelings, only because you don’t want to show your feelings, but he’ll understand that because he tends to do the same, hiding behind his silly personality but you both know each other enough to know when someone needs a hug.
Both of you are very direct when confronting problems, it’s easy for you both to talk if anything is making you feel unsure or uncomfortable, although, given his explosive nature it might take him a while to notice if you feel uncomfortable in a crowd or a party but be sure that the moment he notices, he’ll pull you out of there in a second. He won’t ever want to make you uncomfortable.
You’ll be helpful in situations where things start to get difficult. You aren’t outspoken but you’re firm on your ideas so if you think he’s beginning to get tired and you tell him to rest, you’ll make him rest! It’s also very easy for you to know when he’s feeling uneasy. You won’t ask him directly because you know he won’t tell you, but you’ll act on it with small things such as eating his favorite meals and watching his favorite movies. At one point, he’ll feel more calm to speak up about his problem and you’ll listen and try to help him with any advice you have to offer..
Sometimes, you’ll overwork yourself, getting stressed and often exhausted, but he’ll be there to take care of you. He’ll remind you to eat your meals (”make it something healthy, you’ll need all the brain food you can get for exams!”), take breaks (”working too hard for too long isn’t good for you, please be careful”) and you’ll tell him to do the same for himself because you know he tends to overlook his own health.
On other occasions, things will become a bit too much for you to handle. You’ll want time alone and he’ll be able to understand that. He won’t push you to be sociable nor will he force you to spend time with him. He’ll text you to know if you’re okay and check up on you until you feel like actually going out and spending time with people but he won’t make you go to big parties, just friendly reunions where you can laugh and be at ease.
You both have a respect for personal space, he’ll never crowd you or bother you because he knows there are time you just want to be by yourself. Neither like loud, big parties so be sure he’ll never drag you to crazy parties. He’d rather take you out to enjoy a movie or have fun with a close group of friends. Since you both like deep conversations, you’ll probably stay awake until late talking and sharing old stories. He’s also a good listener, but so are you; you’ll take turns speaking, you don’t need to worry about him interrupting you or talking over you because he’s listening closely. He’s intuitive, if you’re having a bad day, he’s going to notice but he won’t push you to tell him about it, he’ll find other ways to make you smile again. Paying attention to details and learning or remembering the small things he tells you about himself will make him smile, because he’ll know you’re paying attention. Having things organized is also something you both like, maybe not in the sense of having everything clean but maybe planning out your day? He’ll make sure you have time for everything. He’s attentive, so if you’re forgetful, he’ll remind you.
At first glance, you might think that the fact that he’s introvert and your extrovert might affect you but on the contrary, you balance each other out. You know when he needs time to himself, time for him to collect his thoughts. He knows when you need to vent your frustrations out. You’ll help him in social situations, drawing the attention away from him if he ever feels uneasy in the spotlight. Your hearty, bubbly nature compliments his calm demeanor making him laugh and convincing him to go out and have a good time for you. His sensing personality while be fascinated by any imaginative scenarios you talk about when you get into one of your talkative moments. You’re both able to communicate directly, speak what’s on your mind which will make things much easier, avoiding conflict. He doesn’t give much opinions on unimportant matters but if the matter is big, he’ll speak up and probably convince you because what he says will be precise and true. There are moments when you’ll get caught up inside your head, he’ll be there to remind you it’s ok, that you can still relax and have fun. Your messy organization will be no more with him; be sure he’ll want everything in some sort of order. You feel heard with him, and he doesn’t feel pressured with you. The perfect balance.
You can be sure he’ll never push you to do something out of your comfort zone. His personality naturally rejects being superficial so if you ever feel down about how you look, he’ll immediately tell you that you don’t need to worry about those things, that you look amazing everyday to him. He’ll also make you feel at ease, his slight extrovert side will make you feel comfortable in a group of unknown people, help you integrate yourself at a party. He’ll always remind you about the best parts of you, because you need to be reminded that you’re incredibly compassionate. You have an artistic side he’ll certainly help you pursue or even discover if you haven’t yet. On the other hand, you can help him with his patience, he’ll learn that from you. Are you very unpunctual? He’ll always remind you about your deadlines! Most important of all, if you’re very unsure when taking decisions, he’ll help you clear your mind; give you options, pros and cons, find the most important choices but he’ll always let you choose because he knows that in the end, it’s always your decision.
You both have different energy levels, you’re spontaneous with the things you do for him while he’s more likely to give you something simple that might have taken him awhile to plan. He’s calm and steady while you’re joyful which often consists of you making him laugh. His attention to detail will always be good for you since you tend to make decisions on the go, he’ll help you out in situations because he always analysis everything around him, pointing out details and errors you might have missed while you were going through everything so fast. You both know feelings are important so the affection is natural, never forced. Simple and kind gestures are normal for both of you. You like making decisions but are usually laid back and casual, he usually makes the most important decision for you so you don’t feel pressured. Since you make plans on the go, he’ll always tell you that you should be a bit more organized, although you know that he will organize your things for you even though he won’t tell you. Most importantly, you help him relax and have fun, he’s always trying to do and fix something but you’re there to remind him it’s okay to unwind and kick back sometimes.