No, no that's a good point. I (don't know why I sent it anon, but yknow, anxiety) consider most of my mutuals 'friends' but wouldn't presume to actually talk to them 😅 especially if (and I know this is a terrible way to look at it) they're a more popular blog/tiktoker with more followers than me
I get you with the anon anxiety 😂
Yeah no I get that. Bigger blogs do come across as more unapproachable in the same way I feel that cliques in school do (god that's such a horrible comparison I'm sorry) it's that same sort of situation I feel where they seem less like humans and more like ideals. God that sounds worse, I can't explain it but I know what you mean
I still regard mutuals as like 'friends' but I feel there is a difference between them in the same way work friends, family friends, childhood friends and friend friends are different. There's different levels to them but no less important ya know?
Idk man I think I'm putting way too much thought into this 😅
Thanks for the ask sweetheart
