#askkaiba

[kaibawolf]

I'm asking you anonymously cause I'm weird but my name is Ben I'm a 15 aspiring femboy with muscular build and say I'm pretty average looking like I'm just a person you would see any old day on the street. I'm just asking to see how I could actually be open about being a femboy I'm already openly gay but being a femboy seems like an even larger step. I dunno some tips for fashion would asks be cool >////< thanks

Hi Ben! Ahhhh 15, that takes me back x3 First of all. Being a femboy isn’t associated with being gay, don’t connect the two. However, I’d say it may be harder to be open about it than being gay, because you can’t see sexuality, haha. Take baby steps, one thing at a time. Make sure to keep it classy at all cost. If you want to avoid more attention while you creep in on being a femboy, stick with more laid back or monochrome colour themed outfits (greys, browns, etc.) Most importantly, don’t focus on being “open” about it. Just wear what makes you happy and be yourself dude ^^

Hope this helps, lemme know if you want any more questions~

~Kaiba

[kaibawolf]

Just felt like putting this out there... I'm a girl and femboy a are beautiful and I would date one. I saw another ask on here about a man who everyone thinks is gay because he's a femboy, and I'm over here like, I'd date you. So if you a a femboy be proud of it, regardless of height, weight, haircut, or sexuality, because you're adorable^_^ k bye

Damn straight girl! See you guys? 

[kaibawolf]

I'm an aspiring femboy, I turn 18 in just a little over a week. I'm thin, tall, and fairly athletic, though by no means musclebound. But I really want to know how I can start getting curves, and dealing with facial angles especially. I think makeup may help with that, but I'm not sure where to start. Could you point me in the right direction, please? Thanks so much~!

Makeup can have many layers and intricacies. I’d say study makeup artists who do a lot of male to female work for movies and actors of sorts. (My best guess) Otherwise, all you need is a decent base and something to bring out your eyes a bit. (Just don't go overboard at first)

Curves. Well. Guys usually don’t have ‘em. You gotta work with what you got. My personal strategy is; when I work out, I do low weight/high reps almost everywhere, but high weight/low reps for any exercise that works my thighs and bum to stack and build muscle. That’ll give you a little bit of a curvy placebo effect in the mirror.

~Kaiba

[kaibawolf]

hi, I' m a femboy. I' m not self-confident and I' m shy (almost as a girl); I think I can't change any of this things becouse they are part of me, I' m really scared of being alone, becouse girls like femboys, but I have a lack of the classic male's self-confidence (which most of femboys had becouse usually they are more outgoing) I really don't know how to deal with it, I even asked a lesbian friend to find me a bisexual girlfriend... maybe she will like both my masculinity and femininity

First off, never say never. I’m more shy-erer than you I bet. You CAN change this part of you, and one day you will, because you’ll be tired of missing out and getting stepped on on account of not speaking up for yourself.

Secondly. There’s no need to be afraid of being “alone.” Most people are, but it’s a depressing and draining way to be. Learn to be a full, complete, happy person. Then find someone who is the same. If you walk into relationships leaning on the other person as you “other half,” it will crumble apart time after time. 

Thirdly, cut the crap with the generalizations. Femboys are ALL WORLDS APART in terms personality, habits, confidence levels, physicality, social interaction, psyche, etc. The only similarity we share is that we all embrace our anima instead of shunning it.

Lastly, if you search to find acceptance in others your whole life rather than acceptance and confidence within yourself, you’ll never be able achieve a stronger, happier state of mind. 

Best of luck dude, 

~Kaiba

[kaibawolf]

Hi, I'm 175 cm/5'9, I know femboys comes in all shapes in sizes as eagle said, but I want to get shorter! I was like 10 cm(even more) shorter last year, I was tall as a girl pratically, but now I'm taller than other boys, it really gives me problems, I want a neutral height, I'm also a cosplayer and this height is too tall! can you please give me any tips? I know it's really stupid to say, but I don't care if I hurt my back or anything, I want to be shorter.

Dude, this is a really dangerous thing to consider. I’m 5-7 and would still like to be a tad shorter, but height is one of those things that you can’t control. I believe Eagle is quite tall himself. Around 6 feet if I remember correctly, and look how great he looks! Tall is just as good as short. They both have their ups and downs (no pun intended) Fashion models are all required to be quite tall, and most clothing fits better to a certain degree. Be proud of your hight! look down and see all those enlarged awe-struck pupils staring up at you!

Go out there and rock it dude!

~Kaiba

[kaibawolf]

Hi Kaiba! Thanks for always posting so many awesome outfits and advice to people! I know that you've said that hair is really important to femboys and I was wondering if you could maybe post a few examples of hairstyles that you think would fit femboys. I wanna look through a lot of samples and see if I can find one that I really like, so if you could maybe post a few that you'd recommend, I'd really appreciate it. Thanks, Kaiba!!! :)))

Thanks dude, Will do! Keep an eye open for it!

[kaibawolf]

I've been wanting to become in touch with my feminine side a little but more , so I decided that I want to dye my hair. The problem is I'm a bit of caramel skin tone and I can't find pics of guys with different hair colors only white guys. Help? :(

Cool! Hair dyeing can be a tricky task. Keep in mind that not all skin tones and eye colours look great with certain hair colours. For example, my eyes are green with a little yellow in the centre. So I wouldn’t look good with jet black hair. I’d have to stick to a really dark brown. research your skin tone/eye colour and hair colours that complement it well, I guarantee you’ll find out something. My suggestion for you is a rich, dirty blond. Unless you wanna do a crazy colour.

Best of luck,

~Kaiba

[kaibawolf]

Haiii,Im a 15 year young femboy with a shoulder length layered-ish scene haircut, and i was wondering how I could I make it just a tad bit more femboy. Im mixed with a caramel skin tone. lol i'll take just about anything. Also any tips for someone new to femboy. Baiii ^_^ /

I don’t think there’s such a thing as femboy specific hairstyles. Anything edgy or even just plain stylish works great dude, and it sounds like you already have that down! :3 I do have a femboy hair project post that i’m working on currently; keep an eye out for it! And check out my previous answers to questions asking how to start out, I’m pretty sure I have them all tagged #femboy advice #femboy help or #ask kaiba

Hope they help dude,

~Kaiba