Can lesbian gorgons get married in Lamai kingdom? Also do they have a male ziqit or can a ziqit be female?
That's a great question! Same-sex marriage is legal in all Great Kingdoms except Evangeline and Damijana.
It's mostly legal in Lamai Nation as well, although it comes with some caveats. I'll talk about those in a second. First I will say that by Lamaish law, gorgons can only marry other gorgons. A Lamaish gorgon marriage may legally contain:
A female, alpha male, and ziqit.
Two females and an alpha male.
Only these combinations can be in a legally-recognized partnership. Notice that two alpha males cannot exist in the same marriage, nor can an alpha male marry a ziqit. This is due to the fact that females have more rights in Lamai Nation than males do. Only females can own property, take out loans, etc. Males can only do these things with permission from a female representative; usually their grandmother, mother, sister, or wife. A family unit without at least one adult female in it can't really function in this culture.
When an alpha male and a ziqit marry the same female, they are not necessarily marrying eachother. They are each married "separately" to the female, so if the female dies or exits the marriage, the alpha male and ziqit have no legal ties to eachother anymore.
These males don't even get custody of their own children in most cases, the government tries to pass the children to female relatives of the mother first, then female relatives of the alpha male, then female relatives of the ziqit.
If the children are refused by all those parties, they are sent to an orphanage instead of to their fathers, because like I said, male gorgons do not have many rights in this society, so it would be harder for them to provide for a child without a female present, who has the power own property, bank accounts, and make important legal decisions that males cannot make.
When a gorgon wife dies, one of her female relatives usually takes ownership of the home as well as custody of her children. If this relative is single, she may even marry the alpha male and ziqit who were left behind. Otherwise these males might seek a new wife together, seek different wives separately, or just remain unmarried but continue living in that household to be with their kids. There are many possibilities, but ultimately it's up to the living female left in charge of the dead wife's estate.
I also want to mention that from a legal standpoint, female gorgons cannot register as ziqits. Some females may call themselves "ziqit" and behave socially like one, but this status won't be legally recognized by Lamai Nation's government.
TL;DR: Lamai really said, "lesbian marriages are fine but gay marriage is no-no because men are too stupid lol"