Im sorry dating apps aren't proving fruitful right now :(( I had tindr for a while before i gave up on it, i actually made a friend through it in the end! I hope at the very least bumble can bring u some positive experiences! Even if you don't find your darling -💀
i really found someone super nice but it turned out they’re really dumb so i don’t know how to abscond out of this situation
they like anime, homestuck, dnd and they were rambling on to me about their hyperfixations!! it was all going smoothly until it. wasn’t
so i found out that they’re a kinnie, and that’s fine! that’s great! however.. when they sent me their listography (who still uses listography?? it’s all about carrd) they used d.i.d system terms.. for their kins...
so i tried to ask them questions like?? are you a system?? and they kinda avoided the question and then they were like “Ye!” but they never actually said they were a system?? and they called their highest kin the “host” and had lists that were like “kins that front the most” and that’s.. not how that works at all?????
so i sent them my carrd which has all my headmates and info about them and they replied with “You are v valid” which was like. im? valid?? what about my headmates? who are not me???
so i started talking about my headmates and told them my system’s main fronters blah blah blah and they.. responded with “Is there a way you want me to ask you for what name/pronouns?”
first of all. IT ISN’T ME YOU’D BE ASKING!!!!!
so i reiterated that my headmates are Not me and that you can just ask who’s fronting if you aren’t sure??? like for someone who claims to be a system you should know?? that????
so anyway i gave this idiot my discord and im too nice to block them also they have two other partners and while that’s totally valid the only kinda polyamory that i personally can handle for myself as of now is if it’s a poly triad where we’re all three dating each other, like, this is out of my comfort zone aaaa