Hi :3 i’m a Leo male crushing on a Scorpio male. Originally we had met on a dating website. I was the first to message him thinking that he would get tired of my conversations but i found myself talking to him everyday. He eventually gave me his snapchat after two weeks and we’ve been snapping each other everyday. There was even a night where stayed up all night messaging each other. Our chats are weird. We come up with weird scenarios and joke around a lot with each other.(1/2)
He calls me names but ive heard that scorpios act a little mean to people they like so i take it as a sign that he likes me. Weve gotten to the point where were both the number one people we snap as indicated by the 💛 emoji. He’s been insisting that we should hang out and i told him that id be down. Im just curious to know if they would do all this just for fun or if they genuinely like someone. I’m sorry if I sound so unsure, please take it from a Leo that has been neglected from past bfs ;~;
hi! I’m definitely not a relationship expert or anything, and I think it depends a lot on the particular people involved (rather than signs) to determine how a relationship is going to go, but if we’re gonna generalize for a bit...
I’d say that a scorpio in this situation would be emotionally committed, for sure. like, usually scorpio is the one who’s over-invested? because scorpios often get too deep and go too hard too fast in a relationship and scare their sig. other off. bc intensity! that’s one of the reasons that scorpio & leo can be a good match, because as a leo, you’re more likely to ENJOY that kind of attention instead of finding it weird.
I think it sounds like he likes you! it sounds like you guys have spent a lot of time talking and getting to know one another, which is awesome! but i’d warn you that, as a leo, you’re a sucker for attention, and being on this guy’s radar all the time has got to feel really good. think this through a little, like: after a few days without talking, will you still feel the same way about him? is it him, or the attention he’s giving you?
a good way to tell if a scorpio is serious about a relationship is if he’s told you about himself. like, how much do you know about him? do you know his little quirks? does he let you see him when he’s tired, or sad, or awkward? scorpios are always afraid of being vulnerable, so being vulnerable is a p good indicator that you’re important to him! (calling someone names, on the other hand, can cross the line from playful teasing to real insults much too quickly. just remember, nobody is mean to the people they respect, scorpio or otherwise.)
a last note: relying just on the sun sign in astrology isn’t going to give you a lot. finding out what his chart looks like, and what your chart looks like, could probably tell you a lot more about the relationship. look especially at venus (love, commitment, how he/you will act in a relationship) and mercury (communication, how you/he interact with the world).
good luck! hope this helped, maybe kinda!