#astroquestions

[mercurysharmoniums]

I have moon opposite venus and I find it gives me a lot of anxiety when talking about my feelings and passions. any tips on how to try and heal such an aspect?

Cure your throat chakra, embrace your Swadhisthana, think blue, think orange. Meditate on these.

In a more astrological sense, take a look at the signs these planets reside in and your houses. What other aspects do these planets make? I’d also suggest taking a look at the rulers of the signs (Venus in Scorpio? Look to Mars and Pluto, etc) and it will show you the route you can take to feel more comfortable sharing this information. Saturn can be a big cause of anxiety also- heal your Saturn and this opposition will be easier to heal also.

Simple steps to take now; self-talk about your emotions in a positive manner. You don’t have to say them to others or out loud, just learn how to communicate with yourself internally and in a positive light and it will start to get easier and easier. Focus deeply on how you speak to yourself and treat yourself. Once you add more love to the problem, the problem will cease.

Much love<3

[mercurysharmoniums]

Do you think that Saturn transiting the 7th house can sometimes make someone attracted to older people? I have it going on right now and I am sooo attracted to older men, I'm only 21 but I am feeling drawn to more mature types and just generally physically attracted to older men haha. I also have venus transiting my tenth house too..

Essentially, yes. It’s part of the Saturn flavor. Venus transiting tenth can show attraction to success as well.

[mercurysharmoniums]

Hey! I really don't mean to bother you but it's hard to find specific info on this; I recently found out I have a t-square, I have Venus in Aries in the 11th house opposing Chiron in the 5th house and they both square Jupiter in the 8th house. What does this mean exactly? Thank you so much!

Take the energy of the planets, houses, signs involved. Venus in Aries, love of adventure, loves quickly, innocently, in the 11th, hopes and dreams involve friendship or expansive love- opposing Chiron, hard lessons to be learned while on your search for love and beauty, deep truths will be revealed to you most likely having to do with an insecurity around expressing yourself and creating- squaring Jupiter in the 8th, another ‘expansive’ energy but this time relating to deep self-evaluation, the deep evaluation of those close to you and close relationships, sex, death, the taboo, money. Jupiter hits both your Chiron and Venus, demanding them to grow, reach out. First step is to heal your Chiron, I like to suggest seeing how to do that by living your North Node energy, and in this case allowing your Venus to thrive and your Jupiter to probe. It might be an uncomfortable journey with that 8th energy being penetrated so deeply, but embodying that warrior spirit of Aries will give you the determination you need to push through and discover that these energies can reward you with infinite creative power and self-knowledge.

[mercurysharmoniums]

are there any benefits or at least any way to get past having Neptune and Uranus both in the 7th house? every site says that marriage should be avoided with those placement and that marriage relationships would be filled with confused and uncertainty

I 100% believe that any aspect, sign, position, etc. can all lead to positive outcomes with the correct mindset and work put into them. Fatalistic astrology does not set well with me- we are in charge of our own destiny. We get to decide what we are going to do with the energies we’re given.

Neptune and Uranus in the 7th does not automatically mean, avoid marriage! But, we can take caution when deciding to get married and not let Uranus rush us into something we think is ‘destined’ (Neptune). This is what you want to avoid. Take your time deciding whether that person is the one.

Take a look at the aspects that these planets make to other planets in your chart, specifically personal planets. This is how you can pinpoint negative traits without being disillusioned by Neptune, and how to create positive energy bridges that bring out the best in both Neptune and Uranus.

You will need a partner that holds both these planets’ positive traits. Not just one, not neither, not ‘well sorta.’ The person will likely be spiritually inclined, be rather intelligent, be creative and emotionally evolved, enjoy spontaneity and excitement. Avoid those who have addictions or show manic episodes that negatively affect you, others, or themselves. Be sure that this person includes you in these adventures of theirs and lets you in.

The way I see this in a positive light, is a marriage between two people that are both independent, highly spiritual, and very compassionate and loving toward each other. The relationship is not likely a ‘normal’ one, but quirky and special in the way they make it.

[mercurysharmoniums]

Hey! I'm just curious, do you think the sister signs kinda play off of each other's energies &a qualities? For example, I have met a lot of virgos who exhibit the negative qualities of a Pisces: playing the victim, incredibly sensitive & emotionally manipulative, and very messy &a scattered and I have also come across many libras who are brash and impulsive, who are domineering and aggressive. Have you ever noticed this with sister signs?

In case anyone reading this is wondering what ‘sister signs’ are, it’s a term to describe opposing signs. The term is used in order to show the connection of the signs and to avoid the thought process that since they’re opposite, they’re completely different. This is not so, opposite signs are very similar and each hold the key to balancing the other’s negative qualities.

Okay, now for the answer to your question- in my opinion, of course! Opposing signs are quite similar in many ways, and by incorporating the positives of the other sign, these negative qualities can be transformed. It’s also likely that the person is straying from their nature, leading the see-saw to sway too far to the other sign, as happens often with planets opposing each other and is no different for the signs.

[mercurysharmoniums]

I have both Taurus Jupiter and Saturn conjuncting in the 11th and it's really difficult? I always feel left out in friendships and I don't ever have the confidence in myself to ask anyone out or initiate anything.. I don't know if Jupiter is doing its job :( Please give me some advice!

Saturn can definitely restrict, even when Jupiter is in the picture. Jupiter needs to step up! But how? Take a look at him. What connections does Jupiter make with other planets? Does it stand alone? Now look at Saturn, what connections does he make? Does Taurus rule your 11th house cusp or another sign? Look at Venus in your chart. Where is she?

Saturn in the 11th is going to naturally be stronger here because Aquarius loosely fits with the 11th house and traditionally, Aquarius rules Saturn. Saturn is overbearing in general, but in this case, he’s being encouraged! You can use this energy for good though, it’s not always restriction.

1. Positive contacts with Saturn can show where to relieve this restriction.

2. Venus will show how to bring about the best of both Jupiter and Saturn. How can you help them all work together?

3. Jupiter contacts that are negative can show why the energy is so imbalance and why you might be having friendship difficulties. Oppositions may point to where you’re putting too much emphasis on the other planet rather than Jupiter. Positive contacts to Jupiter will help you figure out how to unblock that energy and get it flowing again. Help your Jupiter feel alive!

Positive thinking goes a long way. Look at yourself differently and find positive things you like about yourself and what you have to offer others in friendship. You may feel lack of confidence because you haven’t explored what you have to offer, you may feel like you’re left out because you aren’t sharing your talents with your friends. What are your hopes for the future? Share these things! Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there. It will take time, Saturn rules time and demands time to be paid before rewards, but I guarantee you, once you put in time and effort into loving yourself and focusing on what is lovable and enjoyable about you, take the time to put yourself out there and initiate (despite setbacks and rejections) Saturn will release those chains and Jupiter’s light will shine through, showering you with positive friendships and answering those wishes/dreams/hopes for the future.

Much love and light :)

[mercurysharmoniums]

Question! Could you please explain Aquarius moon conjunct Saturn square Pluto please. I feel Saturn is such a "controlling" planet. Being sensible and controlling emotions when Pluto is such an intense planet that can overwhelm deep feelings. Thank you so much 💕

Saturn does have chains. You can break these chains through constant self love and evaluation. Aquarius moon already finds it difficult enough to deal with emotions, so Saturn might try and push emotions down in order to not deal with them feeling they’re too messy and difficult to deal with. You might not even know you’re doing it until Pluto rears his head and destroys everything in your path. In the end, you realize these things aren’t needed but that you could have realized that sooner to save yourself heart ache and loss. Lesson? Embrace Pluto, use Saturn to mercilessly explore your emotions on a regular basis rather than a seal to keep them hidden, become friends with letting go of control. Trust the universe. This is what these placements are trying to tell you.

[mercurysharmoniums]

Hi. I just read what u said about stelliums that you consider sun ven and mercury as one planet. I mean i have sun mercury venus and jupiter in the 12th. Shouldn't i consider this a stellium, or having just. 2 planets in it?

Some astrologers would consider this a stellium and others wouldn’t. Some don’t count Venus and Mercury because they’re always super close to the sun but I’d still interpret it like a stellium with Jupiter there. This is an awesome combination by the way:)