"Okay lang yun."
One of the worst things I hate hearing when I am having a bad day is:
Well, tangina with feelings, pre. Hindi po. Paano mo masasabi sa isang tao na okay lang ang isang bagay kung hindi mo naman alam ang nararamdaman niya? Maaaring pareho kayo ng pinagdaanan. Pero, isang malaking pero, subalit at datapwat:
Walang dalawang tao ang makakaramdam ng isang bagay na sobrang magkatulad.
WALA.
I repeat, WALA PO. It may be insulting to that person because in all honesty, there are some instances when you have to pretend that it's okay when it is actually not. That's the hardest part. And you can't
tell a person that it's okay when it's actually not. It might be even harder for that person than it actually is.
Everyone has their bad days pero kailangan nating respetuhin ang mga nararamdaman ng ibang tao. If you think it is helping them to cope up. No, Sir, it's not. You're actually making them feel worse.
Minsan, dapat nating ma-realize na mas makakatulong tayo sa iba kung makikinig lang tayo sakanila kasi minsan din naman, hindi hinihingi ang opinyon natin.
Wala po akong pinaglalaban.