Would you say there are difficulties in being a feedee and neurodivergent?
honestly: yes and I'm gonna just take this as my shot to yap.
the biggest thing I struggle with as an autistic feedee, I have a ridiculously small amount of foods I'm willing to eat. This makes stuffings sorta difficult because there is only so many times you can eat a large dominos pizza. It also means that sometimes if I don't have any of the few foods I like I will forgo eating + being broke, this is mildy disruptive to my gain, no duh.
The other thing is weight gain can be a sensory nightmare, as we all know, I have huge boobs, currently I have no bras that fit. I can't go braless due to how much I hate feeling my boobs resting atop my tummy. so currently I'm stuck in bras that don't fit which are also a sensory nightmare. There's also the whole, I'm stuck in tight clothes that don't fit and those are also sensory hell.
there's also the whole "extra body fat makes you warmer", when over heated, the overstimulation I expirence is frankly insane. for the past couple weeks, I have not had a day in which i haven't been at least mildly sweaty by the end and god is it a fucking night mare.
I'm also yk an autistic person who majorly struggles with social cues, and honestly I do get treated better by society when thinner, and people seem to give my awkwardness less grace now I'm a bit bigger.
however, for me, getting fatter has legit been like, the best thing I've ever done, sure there are challenges but also, in my opinion it's worth it. tldr; it can be hard, but worth it.
YMMV
