if you're a bi girl, don't call yourself gay.
I understand why this would upset some people, but to be honest I feel like I’m in a highly transitionary period of my life right now in terms of sexuality and gender, and I find it difficult to place what my sexuality truly is. Some days “gay” feels right, other days bi. Because of my own complicated relationship with my gender, I am not entirely certain if I like people that are the “same” as me or both the same and different. I feel my gender lies in some area between a feminine male and a masculine female and a true neutral all together, and I’m not certain that “agender” covers it as I used to think, but I tend to be attracted to people who present the same as me (as far as being gnc or androgyne) so I do not feel guilt in calling myself gay. It is a complicated topic. Thank you for sending me an anon to police my gender and personal labels. I appreciate that.