Dr. Delilah, alterD8 avatar, founder and pop psychologist – Know your partner inside and out
“The only normal people are the ones you don’t know very well.”
- Alfred Adler
Great relationships: Get to know thy partner
Ever since I started alterD8, I’ve been striving to really get to know my avatar dates.
According to Time, the three key elements to strong relationships include:
knowing a partner extremely well
strong life skills
great communication
So how do you really get to know someone when cyber dating?
Ask and you shall find out
Since my avatar is that of a pop psychologist, I love to ask people what they truly desire.
You’d be amazed at the kinds of intimate needs that people have and the craving they have to confess. I’ve heard about:
sexual orientation (I’ve met those who are into gay virtual dating)
dream careers
dream women
dream men
fantasies (anonymous cybersex
wild encounters
hurtful relationship experiences
The list goes on. Doesn’t it always?
There’s just something about anonymous dating that helps me click quickly and effectively with others.
Satisfying your partner
How does knowing a partner help your relationship?
I’ve found that knowing what my cyber dates want, and what they may try, is the key to knowing how to get them interested. It also keeps them satisfied and meets their needs.
That’s how I start training my fantasy partners to meet my needs.
In turn, having virtual relationships with those who know me extremely well keeps me satisfied. I like to be surprised and to experiment. It’s refreshing to have others come up with ideas and lead me into fresh sensual adventures.
A little role play never hurt either. Isn’t that the point of a virtual dating website in the first place?
P.S. When dating avatars, try playing 20 questions. Ask everything you wouldn’t dare to ask on an offline date. Sign up for alterD8 today to meet your new virtual date today.
