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why is it always crucify korok. roast korok on a spit. why is it never have a tea party with korok. treat korok to a night on the town

#totk #tears of the kingdom #averygaypost

today’s our one year anniversary and it totally snuck up on me! I wanna be sappy about it but I can’t on any other social media so I’m doing it here. Happy Anniversary, Cedar. Let’s keep making good food and hyping each other up and doing ttrpg with the ’cule forever 💚

#romance ////#couple ///#relationship ///#Averygaypost #averygayface #sapphic #kiss

can’t get over this pose flapjack struck yesterday. the daintily crossed front paws, accompanied by the awkward splaying of the back paws. he just stood Like That for a full minute

#averygaypost #flapjack the cat #cats

somebody help me, my wife is being too hot while i'm not allowed to kiss her and i might explode (she's working out 💪)

#averygaypost #solamente siempre

Help me name the soundproofed closet I’m making to have meltdowns in! Here’s what my wife and I have come up with…

The Rage Room

Studio SCREAM

Chamber of Shrieks

The Zone of Overwhelm

Other (you tell me!!)

Voting ended onAug 13, 2024

More context:

my therapist and I have been talking about meltdowns, and she helped me realize I’ve internalized this idea that I must Always Avoid Meldowns, that they’re to be repressed at all costs —

And she was like “By all means do what you can to regulate yourself so that you don’t get to the point of a meltdown, but if you get to that point you just gotta let it out man”

And I was like. Oh. Oh damn. 🤯

“But I don’t wanna scream so loud my neighbors get worried!”

So my therapy homework was to create a space where I’d feel safe to have meltdowns when I need to. And my wife has been so sweet — the moment I told her about it she was online looking for stuff to put in it, and putting together a design plan 🥹

I know she’s really glad to have a, like, actionable way to help me with my mental health stuff. She needs a Project and this has been just the thing.

…anyone else have a meltdown / sensory safe space?

#averygaypost #actuallyautistic #solamente siempre #I also struggle to let myself melt down for the very common reason that it embarrasses me #too easy to internalize assumptions that it’s ‘just a tantrum’#plus I also feel really bad when it scares my cats #and I know it can upset leah too — but that’s mainly because I wait too long to finally let it out #and just EXPLODE #having a space I can go and be alone will be very good

Bean update — she just woke me up at 3am because she Needed to eat Right Now and also proceeded to drink water for a solid two minutes

The phenobarbital has been keeping her sooooo tired; she spent almost all day yesterday sleeping on the backyard couch except when I made her come in for a the hottest hour of the afternoon. She was ravenous and ate whenever I put food in front of her, but too tired to actually Get Up for it a lot of the time.

I called places that do MRIs around the state and the cheapest one is $2,800??? 😭 Given that if it were to discover a tumor it would probably be inoperable we are probably not going to get one, but I’m going to talk to the vet more about it tomorrow. The other most likely option is it was a stroke. For both scenarios the main treatment option is phenobarbital to keep seizures at bay which we are doing anyway now, soooo an MRI would mainly be just to know for sure. We don’t have $2,800 to drop on that lol.

Flapjack has been afraid of her since she got home Monday; she must reek of vet + sickness and she hasn’t been bathing. But every now and then she approaches him and settles down a few feet away and they just Vibe a while.

Last night I slept on the couch downstairs with her with the stairs barricaded so she’d stay in the area with me where I’ll hear if another seizure happens. Tonight she’s been closed up in our bedroom with us which she was Not Happy about, but too tired to really fight about it.

I was actually kind of happy when I woke to her scratching at the door because that simple act was more energetic than she’d been all day yesterday!

My goals for tomorrow are to talk to the vet some more, and hopefully get her to bathe herself a little. It would make me So happy to see that.

#my cat Nerys #pet illness #Averygaypost

i want to make a sewing piece with flowers from different liberation movements — e.g. lavender for queers, poppy for Palestine...

anyone have information on flowers linked to other movements / cultures? For instance, Black liberation or Latin American / Indigenous liberation?

#rn i'm thinking of doing a rose for Indigenous America because they #are native to here + are meaningful to various cultures #+ they make me think of Latin American liberation theology bc of their association with our lady of guadalupe #and the flower of a black-eyed pea for Black liberation because enslaved Africans were able to bring those plants with them #to the americas and nourish themselves with that memory of home #could also do sunflowers as an important staple crop to many Native American cultures (“the fourth sister”)#plus apparently sunflowers were used in some feminist movements? but i'll have to look into which ones Just In Case #averygaypost

Twirling my hair and kicking my legs back and forth and giggling at the ass crack of dawn

#got a hysterectomy a week and a half ago (yay!!) and #I’ve been having Real Cool Mood Swings and the pendulum is #finally swinging into Lightly Manic — feeling happy and #energized in a way that’s both nice and means I Couldn’t Sleep #BUT WHO CARES because this time next week #I’ll be in bed with a really cute boy??#Averygaypost