awesomekatt replied to your post:I love my mom. I really do. She’s a wonderful...
Well, have you considered actually saying these things to her instead of us? You can’t fix the problem without addressing it directly.
awesomekatt replied to your post:I love my mom. I really do. She’s a wonderful...
Also, I think you should sell your mom’s belongings on ebay just to spite her.
No. Just fucking no. I don't care if my mom made me upset. I may talk about some things she does that makes me sad or angry, but she is my mom and I love her. She does a CRAPLOAD of things for me and she has to deal with a lot more than me. You don't get to say stuff about my mom. she has dealt with enough crap growing up. She dealt with shit in life. She had to fucking leave Vietnam to an unknown place because of the war. She and my family. You do not mess with my family.
This is my blog. I can post whatever I want here. And yes, it may be the occasional rant. But this is MY blog. I never addressed anyone directly. I never said anywhere in my rant that "Oh you guys my mom was being a total jerk. You all, she said [insert stuff]."
No. I happened to type up what happened in my life right there. You don't know what my relationship with my mom is. You don't get to say things like for me to SELL MY MOM'S BELONGINGS. That is HIGHLY disrespectful to my mom.
Have you ever even CONSIDERED that while my mom said these horrible things to me, SHE DOES IT BECAUSE SHE LOVES ME. It hurts yes. But to my mom, personal appearance is important. It's not to me, but it is to her. She's a BEAUTY INSTRUCTOR. Yes. My mom has flaws. I KNOW. But she is my mom and everyone has flaws. Her's happens to be that she thinks people's appearance/image is important.
She also hasn't been lying. I HAVE been gaining a bit of weight. So yes, I am a bit 'bigger'.
You never even taken into consideration what my relationship with my mom is like. I was raised to be RESPECTFUL to my elders, especially my parents. It goes against EVERYTHING i believe in. It goes against /me/ to try talking back to them. I am not that type of person. She may say some hurtful things from time to time, but she is not a bad person. EVERYONE says hurtful things now and then. She wants me to be healthy and HER image of healthy is a bit skinnier than what I currently am.
It seems as though you think something can be simply be fixed easily. You don't take into consideration how if I were to talk to my mom that it might affect our relationship. I can handle a bit of mean commentary. My mom is getting older. She and my dad are constantly stressed from work to support me and my siblings. I will do anything to keep her from feeling less stressed.
So don't you DARE talk like this about my mom. Don't you DARE tell me to sell her possessions on ebay. All of her stuff, she worked hard for and had to struggle to get. I am not an ungrateful daughter that will be so childish like sell her things.
Family may upset me from time to time, but that does not give anyone a reason to talk shit or tell me to do pathetic things such like that.
This is my blog. I can post whatever the hell I want. If you don't want to see these type of posts then unfollow me.
