#axesual

[pixelchix-esports]

Yall how do i explain the difference between a qpr and a situationship to the lgbtq-less people. cos these straights,,,, these allos,,,, i dont think they can conceptualize the difference. im trying so hard to use my words and give them like a textbook definition. do i have to start using charts and diagrams. would they resonate with that

[guettaes]

ladies and gentlemen, I am making a great announcement now with a drawing of what I am like. as a rainbow member...

I'm Axesual

I’ve been thinking for 1 month that I’m sure I’m like that, and I asked other people what it meant. but I already know what it means and I 100% guess I’m Axesual. I hope it is a surprise to you that I am the one who hurts gay people in my country, they even pay to do this to us, unfortunately the Hungarian government hates gay people. it is a shame for me to live and stay in this country. it's the truth...

[alexa-yukiyu]

Ace-pride~~~ some abstract art

[meowmeowfucker-blog]

I love my girl but she aint worth the price.

Happy Pills - Weathers

[castielfallenangelwinchester]

This is beautiful

[rueli]

Those moments when you're Ace and have to awkwardly shoot down people who ask you out without making it sound like you're personally rejecting them.

[nyleeri]

I think and start to belive I’m axesual. It’s would explain some things....

Details or not:

I’m not ‘sex is important’ person. I mean: in some debate* (change/move on/drift of topic*) and start talk about sex I’m always like: ‘.... I don’t understand why you speaking about it like it’s a big business ? We don’t give a damn’ or ‘You not gonna DIE ‘cause you don’t get your bang !’ oooor ‘Can you stop think with your dick/cunt just for a fucking minute ...?’ All in all: that... disgust me.

Not the sex but the way people holy this like it’s just as important as breath.

So when I hear a ‘sad story’ about it I’m like: ‘ohhhh pooooor little one~ :’D ! ... Did you just die ‘cause of this ?’ and be very sarcastic.

I mean: yeah sex (at last alone, I don’t know otherwise) can be pleasant on the moment your in moon. (Did some people REALLY have sex just for ‘have sex’ but are not in moon ?? It’s what I have understood from what I hear and it’s doesn't seems to shock people around, like it’s.. ‘normal’ ? Damn I can bear that if it is ! uuugh...)

But otherwise ? Just get over it and go get a life, pet a dog, idk. But damn it’s like people think with their genital. (which won’t surprise me LOL !)

With that: I can find people attractive, really so ! (artistic, beautiful way OR / AND ‘wow he/she/them have what they need where they need’ -> I don’t know how to say that’s in english and it’s a bit... vulgaire ? Not really, it’s not a bad word but you just CAN’T say that’s lourd: but in french I say ‘Il est bien gaulé !’ or ‘Elle est bien foutu / Elle est bonne’ *PLEASE NEVER, EVEN TRY, TO SAY IT*) But I don’t be... attract sexualy be them ?

Even watching porn or free lance mostly on tumblr: the actor(ess) can’t be cute, attractive, or have.... good part where it’s needed but not attract me: it’s can be another person or not even seeing anything than their sex ->  it’s would be all the same like. I won’t enjoy the person who did it personaly. It’s the act, the erotism or what, which excited me, not the people.

I don’t know how to explain this....?

BUT: I did enjoy read or write smut (fics, of course) and can imagine it very... well; The act, the scene can be exciting and all; really enjoying: but after the ‘mode turn off’ it’s just OFF. Nothing more. I don’t know if it’s a point to add but well !

So... I don’t know how to explain or/and if that’s make me axesual but I think I am !

[spockpool]

I couldn't really give a rats ass

I don't give two apples what sexuality I am, and I don't care what anyone else is. If we like each other great! If I like you but you don't like me, a little bit of a bummer but also great! If you like me but I don't like you, again a bummer, but also great! I never gave a thought to what my sexuality is, I just assumed if I liked someone I'd try to have a relationship with them. My mother never really spoke about sexuality, heck we barely had a sex talk. When i had a question, not matter how weird, I'd go to her and she'd try to answer it the best she could and if she couldn't answer it, she'd look into it with me. I'm lucky to have a very understanding and open mother. She knows I'm attracted to men and women, but she also knows that my favourite animal is a jellyfish, that I favour chocolate milkshake over strawberry. It's just something she learnt about me as i developed as a person. She accepted me as i was and thought nothing of it, didn't try to change me, or alter any of my opinions (and hell knows i have a lot of them)

In fact, it never occurred to me that people would behave differently towards someone if their sexuality was different than their own until i was around 15. It confuses me that this happens, I just for some reason can't find the logic in stopping two people (for however a brief/long time) that love each other from being with each other.

I've also found out that people love labels. This whole concept of the LGBT community confuses me (I'm sorry if i offend anyone here) So you're gay? Who cares if you're asexual? Transgender? good, great, brilliant, but I don't really give two pennies. The only thing i care about is if i ask you out and you say yes, that we'd have a great time together and enjoy each others company. Come meet my mother!, moan about your day! tell me your latest theories on why milkshakes bring everyone to the yard! Tell me how attractive you find that person! (i'd probably even get an eye in too!) And if you say no. Well sucks for me, because, despite the fact you don't like me like that? I liked you because you are a bloody brilliant person. But oh well, I'm sure we can still chat, and if that makes you awkward? it's okay, it may hurt now but I'll get over it, I'll find someone who thinks i rock. that want's to chill with me, chat with me, hug me, and all that jazz, all just because they think, I'm a bloody brilliant person

The human race is not monogamous. No individual mates for life. And I think that's a great thing. i means i can have a great time with someone, perhaps for years! but when that's over,  know that I'll always remember you, but i know can still feel love again.

And when I'm on my death bed, and I'm remembering everyone who ever meant anything to me. You will flash though my mind. even if its painful. even if it's happy. you were part of my life, and that is all I could've asked for.

And now.. for a kitty