#barghestia

[katzsidhe]

13, 21, 30, 33

21. what's the most creative improvising you've done during a scene?

The first that comes to mind was not during a scene, but during pride last year. I took off my personal collar and used the chain as an impromptu leash during pride last year, leading my then girlfriend through the park in seattle. I think ive used it as an impact toy, as well. Something satisfying about using a personal object like that as a tool of dominance.

30. do you have any fetishes?

Yes, I do. :)

33. do you have a go-to safe word?

So with S/M, Ive been playing with a quick “wait wait wait” and “mercy” for equivalents of yellow and red. There is no green, it’s just a diegetic check-in with some sort of “yes, ma’am” to confirm. When im doing handler stuff, my word is “heel”. With new people or in like, a party environment I always default to stoplight tho. Everyone knows it and it’s easy to hear.

[bbyhog]

Sending you sinister cow

she may be the sinister cow but she has a heart of gold maybe. i would offer her a hug

[anarchafemme]

☕️

Best treats in savory and sweet respectively?

Charcuterie for savory and uh probably milkshakes for sweet

[hocuschlocus]

happy birthday!!! i hope it's got a good meal at the end and people you love all along

today has been a wonderful birthday I’m about to get dinner from my wife and i’s fave diner and maybe watch a silly little movie and I got to spend the day with two of the people I love the most and I’ve gotten nothing but love today MY FUCKING GRANDMA WISHED ME A HAPPY BIRTHDAY and she hasn’t done that since 2017??????? it’s been a healing birthday

also I miss you friend and always am sending lovely wonderful vibes your way

[crytetrahavoc]

6, 12, 18, 24

whoa, hey you! (: we have similar music tastes from the stuff you posted. 6. A song that makes you want to dance: I don't usually dance, but if something has a groovy enough beat to it, I'll sway along, so my choice would be a recent favorite; Black on Black on Black by Frog 12. A song from your preteen years: I'm gonna pull from the album I listened to the most, Juturna, and say The Great Golden Baby by Circa Survive, I just really like Anthony Green's falsetto, it's really good. 18. A song from the year you were born: Virtual Insanity by Jamiroquai. Not actually my favorite Jamiroquai song, but I'd be remiss if I didn't choose it as the touchstone. Jumping off of your previous ask I could've also said Pony by Ginuwine. 24. A song by a band you wish were still together: This one hurts, cause they broke up just recently. Eat Men Eat by black midi. Gotta say, it's my favorite song about miners getting turned into stills for a strange homophobic prospector vampire, if you can believe it.

[anarchafemme]

do all the primes for the ask game!

You come into my asks expecting me, a homosexual, to know math????

hhhhhhjjjjhhhjj fine....

2. chocolate bars or lollipops?

Chocolate, the darker the better

3. bubblegum or cotton candy?

cotton candy!

5. do you prefer to drink soda from soda cans, soda bottles, plastic cups or glass cups?

Cups in general, as long as they don't have a lid. Bottles n cans have a reduced olfactory experience.

7. earbuds or headphones?

If you count iems as earbuds then earbuds. If not, then around ear headphones.

11. what you have for breakfast on an average day?

black coffee, no sugar

13. lanyard or key ring?

key ring

17. most frequently worn pair of shoes?

doc marten mary janes

19. sleeping position?

side

23. strange habits?

I compulsively squint my eyes shut rly hard. Also I love to play with my gauges then smell my fingers

29. best way to bond with you?

just hanging out quietly, having our substances of choice

31. what outfit do you wear to kick ass and take names?

uhhh, black swing dress with, white waist belt, faux pearl necklace, and strappy black leather retro heels. or something like that

37. suitcase or duffel bag?

Suitcase

41. last person you texted?

irl mutual

43. hoodie, leather jacket, cardigan, jean jacket or bomber jacket?

leather jacket

47. favorite type of cheese?

cant decide on a single one, cause like there are three distinct categories of cheese which all have their place - melty, sharp, and funky. So in that order, oaxaca, parmigiano reggiano, and roquefort

53. what is the current state of your hands?

Very dry, sanitized them with phosphoric acid prior to bottling my wine earlier.

59. if you were a video game character, what would your catchphrase be?

running late, sorry

61. favorite line you heard from a book/movie/tv show/etc.?

Filth is my politics, filth is my life

67. good luck charms?

a combination cat knuckle/bottle opener/hex socket wrench keychain,

71. least favorite pattern?

paisley

73. favorite weird flavor combo?

its not actually that weird when you understand it, but coffee and salt.

79. which looks better, your school id photo or your driver’s license photo?

uhhhhh, I mean it's been >15 years since I've had a school id photo, so like my drivers license definitely. My current one sucks though, the dmv changed the cameras they used and they're like fixed height. So its like at stomach height looking up at my face which looks v bad.

83. writing or drawing?

drawing ig. I dont rly enjoy either

89. who would you put before everyone else?

my cat :3

97. how many phone numbers do you have memorized?

four, one of which is no longer in service