5 things I look for in a potential mate- neurolove
1. Honesty: Don't lie to me, don't lie about who you are and don't lie about what you feel. I'd rather someone who is honest with me than someone who sugarcoats things or lies because they think I can't handle it. Don't lie about who you are- just be yourself and be honest.
2. Passion/Curiosity: Be passionate about what you love and share that passion with me. Be curious about learning and passionate about learning. You don't need to know everything, you don't need to be the best at it. Just be passionate about what you love, whether it's comic books or animals or floral arrangements.
3. Realistic Optimism: Be positive about life, but be realistic about it at the same time. I tend to look at the negative side of things, and being with someone who looks at the positive is really good for balancing me and helping me to see the other perspective.
4. Creative: Not necessarily conventionally creative, with art and words, though I love that. But creative in day-to-day life. Come up with fun dates. Play around with food. To me this ties in with passion. Have fun with normal, every day tasks that could be boring otherwise.
5. Open-Minded, Experimental: I love trying new things, whether it's in the bedroom or new recipes or a new workout or on date night, and I need a guy who can get into that with me. It doesn't have to be anything big- it could just be a cooking or potter or boxing class, it could be anything, really. Not being afraid to step out of your comfort zone and try something new is a really attractive trait.