T, J, M, A, R, I, N, (look they are the letters of the m&ms + tj candy members okay this is dumb)
You adorable little dork thank you
T: How do you know it’s time to end a relationship?
I’m terrible at ending relationships. Even when it’s been really unhealthy in the past and is extremely damaging to me so many I just let it simmer down and hope people don’t call me or try and rekindle things when it’s bad. But I also stop talking randomly even if I like people so don’t take that as a hint I don’t want to be friends I’m sorry I’m weird.
But like there was this one guy who would call me like five times a day and leave me messages on all social media he had and multiple voicemails and I felt bad for him because he didn’t have friends, or a good home, and he was mentally broken but I was legit just scared of him following me home so I stopped talking to him and had support from bros saying don’t be a little bitch just leave it, he moved you’re fine he can’t do anything.
J: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings
I fall way too hard way too fast to ever be able to handle just flings so I’m more in it for serious relationships.
M: What’s one thing you regret saying or not saying, doing or not doing in a previous relationship?
Well in previous relationships -talking platonic because I’m in my first romantic relationship right now- I let people walk all over me. So I really wish I could go back and stand up for myself because I just thought if I didn’t do whatever they wanted, whenever they wanted, then I wasn’t a true friend. So like no matter how they treated me I would just leave it like no they’re all I have I have to deal.
A: Who do you like and why?
Is this like crushes? Or love or what??
Well at my school there’s this girl that’s like hardcore straight and I have such a crush on her and I feel like I’m really obvious about it but she just doesn’t notice and oh my god straight girl crushes are the worst but we’re still good friends so I’ll take it.
basilmunchies -the nerd who sent me this ask- : Mariana is just a precious human being and I would kiss her face if I was allowed
Republicans…is that too far? Nah, I’m keeping it.Bullies (mental or physical), not being a feminist, “they? what are there multiple you’s walking around”
I: What’s the most important part of a relationship?
Trust and communication. If there’s no trust then there’s no relationship to begin with, I don’t want to get into the shit I did before where I was called every name in the book and then I would be their best friend when they didn’t have anyone else to be around. I need to be able to trust they’ll be there for me, I can open up to them, and yeah. And communication you need to be able to say if shit’s going south so we can work out any problem we have before it’s unfixable.
N: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
Well even though I’m all for letting people do with their bodies what they want I believe sex should be put off until a person is at least 15. My logic behind that is there’s a mental side to having a relationship that’s intimate because whether or not one cares about their virginity having sex can mess with someone emotionally if they’re unprepared or pressured into it whether the pressure is explicit or they just feel like they have to. But I strongly believe that people should be educated about sex and the safe way to go about having it before they do anything.
I’m sorry this is really long and took me so long to write. But here’s a little more insight to me I guess