Hi! I was wondering if you could create more of your interaction status emotes. Could you make ones for IAYOR (Interact At Your Own Risk), DNI (Do Not Interact), ATI (Ask to Interact), and OTI (Okay To Interact)? Also, please keep the same style and colors as before—they look so gorgeous!! Hope this isn't too much to ask!!<33
🦇Hey friend ! Thanks for the ask :3 🦇
Good News: Currently available (not all yet posted, can be found joining the discord ) statuses:
- In Verbal Shutdown
- (feeling) Soft
- Close Only
- Do Not Interact
- Interact with caution
- DNI; friends only
- DNI; Partner Only
- Okay To Interact
All in the same colour and style :3 I will be adding IAYOR into my queue. Anyone can view my queue here and see what Im working on! wooff havent been nearly as active
does "plural positive" mean you're safe for endogenic systems/plurals?
disclaimer: I refuse to go into syscourse, BUT this does not mean i will refuse corrections and being given new information. I also just started using tumblr like last year, so my understanding of language mostly from/centered to this platform may not be fully accurate. If im misusing language and such DO let me know !
tldr; we dont wish harm or danger to endos. i have only concern with those who actively & purposefully share misinformation on the nature of CDDs (Complex Dissociative Disorders) and closed spiritual practices.
For the comfort of our community, endogenics are not permitted in our discord chatrooms
I use plural positive as an attitude descriptor. being a system/plural is already exhausting, disorienting, and painful as it is, I believe having community support and sharing of our regular, even positive experiences (in addition, not to erase the real and ugly parts. this should be obvious i think) while acknowledging how much systemhood impacts many's lives is important.
I also acknowledge that many are restricted and denied access to care or accurate language, personally and systematically. looking to the internet as an outlet and source, they may be led to different conclusions and perceptions of thier experiences.
I will not go out of my way to tell someone going through something that thier perceived non-traumatic plurality or systemhood is an evil evil faker and act like thats thier biggest issue. I will though take notice if someone (even traumagenic systems are guilty of this sometimes) shares misinformation to others that can lead to unconsidered harm like further maladaptive behavior, avoidance, isolation, further dissociation, and symptom confusion that can stem from other serious unrecognized & untreated medical conditions.
