#bbh: queer

[bigbillhellz]

"At least trans men can get pregnant if they want to!"

Okay, but you know that the majority of us don't want to have that ability in the first place, right?

You know that for most of us, being pregnant would be a dysphoric hell brought to life, right?

You know that we have to partially detransition the entire time we're pregnant, right?

You know that transmisics use that fact against us and get us pregnant against our will to forcibly detransition us, right?

It's like telling a trans woman "Oh, at least you don't ever have to worry about pregnancy scares for yourself!"

Like sure, a few are grateful for it. But that's not the majority, and the reminder in and of itself can be incredibly dysphoric.

[bigbillhellz]

Okay, so I saw a post that jokes about the two genders being "Utility" (masculine/male) and "Aesthetic" (feminine/female), and that makes me think:

With this logic, the ultimate genderfuckery would be combining the two.

Additionally, I think that [gender] neutrality could be seen within this framework as being "mildly aesthetic and mildly utility", while androgyny in this framework would be "high aesthetic and high utility". Obviously it's not a 1:1 comparison and somewhat depends on the situation, but it's an interesting thought.