how to become popular/attractive (for girls)
-hygiene. nobody stinky is popular in a good way. brush, floss, and use mouthwash. shower and put lotions and deodorant (add perfume to boost your scent). plus it’s always great to smell good and to take proper care of yourself
-hair. have a go-to style for bad hair days. try to switch up your style to find something that suits you. keep your hair clean, moisturized and smelling good. your hair is one of the best ways to express yourself so don’t be afraid to do that style you’ve been thinking about
-fits. make sure your clothes are always fresh. even if you don’t have that many take care of them. wear different clothes when you sleep. have a certain pair of clothes for work-out (if you do work-out), and have an outfit for the day. try to wash them after every use, but if you can’t at least wear deodorant and avoid staining them. keep your shoes clean and looking as new as possible and don’t walk in the dirt or crease them up too much. wipe them down when you get home.
-face. i personally don’t wear make-up, but if you do make sure it actually looks good on you. if you look like a clown, it’s hard to be attractive. have a skin care routine so that you can get rid of blemishes on your face. put castor oil on your lashes and brows to thicken and lengthen them. wear lip balm and/or lip gloss because nobody likes anyone with cracked lips.
-body hair. shave/wax your legs, arms, pits, chest, stomach, and your kitty. that’s not really attractive to be a chewbacca underneath your over-sized sweater and sweatpants. also do your eyebrows and wax that mustache too.
-nails. you don’t always need acrylics, keeping your nails shaped and well manicured will really go a long way. don’t bite your nails or cut them so short where your hands look creepy. clean under them and avoid hangnails. keep your toenails trimmed/shaped and clean. those don’t need to always be painted but keeping them decent is a must.
-social skills. don’t be afraid to talk to someone or to make a new friend. the worst thing could happen is them ignoring you but not everyone will do that. hang around people that have similar interests as you and it’ll be easier to make friends that way, you’ll feel more comfortable in your environment. be nice to everyone or at least respectful even if you hate them with a passion. the last thing you want to do is gossip, or entertain gossip (it makes you look bad, i know from experience). remember that everyone is entitled to their own opinion and you shouldn’t hate someone because of it, you don’t have to be everyone's friend, and popularity isn’t that important and has its downsides.
*not everyone may agree with everything said in this and that’s fine. take what you need from it and keep going*
hope this helps someone
