Irt nurses: when I got infusions done and I asked for something to eat they always were like meh, okay and threw food at me. it took almost a year until I had a nurse whom I'm pretty sure was gay/soft butch, who gave me an actual menu. I commented on how I had no idea I had *choices* and everyone just threw whatever at me and didn't ask and she said something like 'yeah most nurses do not care. Don't tell them I said that'
One nurse was even really testy with me for asking, like 'the food will get here by the time you have to leave, are you SURE you want it, do you want it or not' (spoiler: it was fine). I felt like I was in the principals office.
Also another nurse when I complimented her bracelet said 'thanks! Do you know what the colors mean?'. It was a Chakra bracelet.