#bigsaturday

[kings-jomar]

Ready for a long day!! #2 in the contest BTS Lets goooo!! 🙏🏽❤️💪🏽 #WorkFlow #BigSaturday #ManagerLife #SneakerBoss #PapiShampoo #GainesvilleLife #BeardGang #ManagerOfYear 100k (at Gainesville, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/B0_PcNMl6ja/?igshid=1j5hs1am9inj

[mpspacerocks]

Family day adventure in The Barrio #vscocam #bigsaturday

[kishiouji]

bigsaturdayがあなたの投稿に返信しました “i dont wear a bra”

pics or it didnt happen

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[littlespacecase]

bigsaturday said: i didn’t see interracial there anywhere :(  I didn't see interracial on the list of options at all, probably because F-list is a furry website and race isn't as important when everyone is a wolf-person. So I'll answer that here: I don't really view interracial from a fetish perspective. Historically I have a preference for some races over others, (Asian boys, black girls etc) but overall I can be into anyone as long as they have enough boyish charm.  Boyish charm is the end all be all for whether or not I'm attracted to a person.

[nudityandnerdery]

i dont get it, im a real man, i know how to gauge other men and put the ones who act like bitches in their place. abusive,possessive, psychos are not real men. a real man is loving, compassionate, reassuring, patient, hard working, sincere, devoted, honorable and strong. a real man does not think with his dick all the time, a real man does not throw tantrums and lay hands on a woman in vain, a real man does what has to be done with out giving it a second thought when it comes to his loved ones.

So what you’re telling me here is that I’m not a real man, according to you.

I mean, because let’s be realistic. I get possessive at times. I have lazy days. I’m not proud of it, but I’ve had a few tantrums. I’ve been dealing with mental illness for the past 15 years of my life, so there have been points when I’ve made selfish, stupid choices that have hurt my loved ones or made life difficult for them. Sometimes it’s bad thinking, sometimes it’s not having the energy to help them the way I want. And I hate that I did that. But it doesn’t matter in your book, because I didn’t do “what has to be done without giving it a second thought,” so I’m not a real man. 

But, on the other hand, you’re wrong. Because what it means is that I’m a person, in all my flaws and imperfections. And your list means the exact same thing about you- it doesn’t say whether or not you’re a real man, it’s that you’re a person with a code that you live up to, and incidentally that you’re pretty judgmental of other men.

I mean, there are so many people who try to argue what “real men” or “real women” do. “Real men love Jesus.” Sorry, nearly 5 billion non-Christians in the world. "Real women have curves." Because your body is what matters, sorry. "Real men have beards." "Real men eat pussy." Too bad, gay and asexual men! (Unless your boyfriend is named Jesus, I guess.) Thinking with your dick isn’t even a factor, because not every man has a dick. And I don’t think you do yourself any favors by using a misogynistic term like bitch to describe any man who doesn’t live up to your standards.

Plus, I’m not even a fan of telling abusers and rapists “You’re not a real man.” It shouldn’t even be part of the conversation. Because they’re a shitty fucking excuse for a human being, that’s it. And most of these assholes are the kind of people who think that their masculinity is centered in their strength or their sexuality or their power over a woman, so they think that what they do is what makes them a real man. And they’re just as wrong as you are.

You know what makes a real man? The honest belief that they’re a man. And a real woman believes that they’re a woman. And that’s something people decide for themselves. You don’t get to choose that for them.