#bimpoc

[parasite-of-sentience]

When you meet a clearly femme presenting queer BIMPOC and you don't even ask their pronouns before he/him'ing them are you really giving them the space to be gay,effeminate, a femboy;

or do you just refuse to give them the space to be trans in your queer space unless they BEG to be let in?

[bigdumbscorpianwife]

It's been a while here's my face.

[parasite-of-sentience]

"why are all the big leftists contentious?!"

You're going to have to clarify to me whether "big leftists" includes BIMPOC, disabled and Queer people to you;

And if they do, clarify to me whether or not "contentious" was putting their foot down about their own lived experiences

[parasite-of-sentience]

Something I've seen that needs to be considered in almost every space and community.

I realize being told you're being rude or inappropriate is a common way to silence marginalized folk but sometimes you are in fact being rude and inappropriate, esp to other marginalized folk.