Hey, lately I've been realizing that usually while I'm bi, my romantic feelings sometimes just plummet. I've been thinking thinking of using abroromantic. I feel like an awful romantic partner to my partners when the light of romantic attraction flickers but it's hard to make it not... Flux I guess? My romantic attraction fades, then goes back to biromantic in some kind of cycle. Sometimes fast, sometimes slow. Could I be abro or is this just how stuff works?
So, if I understand this correctly: you’re usually biromantic but sometimes flux into aromantic. Abroromantic covers orientations that tend to have cycles, so you can absolutely use abroromantic! Flux wise, if you think that your biromantic and aromantic states are more unbalanced and tend to happen rapidly, then flux could work. Though aroflux tends to refer to going from aro->alloro, so maybe biroflux? But I don’t want to get too much into semantics. It’s not your fault that sometimes your attraction just kind of fades and comes back, honestly I think that if you’re comfortable of telling your partners about how you feel and as long as the relationship is still positive when you’re not romantically attracted to them, it shouldn’t be much of a big deal, but that’s just me. I’ve always seen romance as a performance and that you can still perform even when you’re not attracted, and if that’s also somewhat in your line of thinking then you can just keep doing what you do before the change occurs.Hope this somewhat helped!
