Sep 19, 2020
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recently I've been thinking my mom isn't completely accepting if me being bisexual. if anyone else is going through this, message me!
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✨ I want to live here, lmao ✨
recently I've been thinking my mom isn't completely accepting if me being bisexual. if anyone else is going through this, message me!
HELP
Can I have some lesbians and bisexuals or former lesbians who are now bisexual or bisexuals who are now lesbians comment below.
So for a long time I indentified as bisexual, because I found men attractive but I wasn't sexually attracted to them. The few men I've been sexually attracted to, I've had very strong romantic feelings for...it was these few men who have stopped me from calling myself a lesbian.
Recently I discovered that I'm no longer attracted physically to one of those men on my list, and that he works better as my friend. So there's literally one guy keeping me from calling myself a lesbian. But, I think that if maybe I found a guy who was liberal, and either in the LGBT community or an excellent ally, and open with his feelings and compassionate, that maybe I could like him too? But I feel like they are far and few to come by.
I know that labels aren't important, but I feel very lost in my identity at the moment. I know I prefer women, but I can also be emotionally and sexually attracted to certain men as well. I'm just super confused and I'm sure someone else has gone through this. Please help😭😭
For those of you who have questions about your sexuality, want to help others answer those questions, or just want to make friends with some other bisexuals!
I'm always here for boys, girls, no genders, or multiple. ❤💛💚💙💜
We've hardly been getting any asks since the Tumblr announcement so I'm wondering if it's harder to find this blog than before.
Because most asks are anon I don't know if it's from people who already followed the blog or if people searched for "bisexuality" and variations thereof and found us that way.
I'd really appreciate if some of you could comment how you initial found your way to this blog - through tumblr search, seeing a post of ours reblogged on your dash, otherwise?
My guess is that it's gonna get progressively harder to actually find resource and advice blogs on here about gender and sexuality so I'd encourage anyone to promo good advice blogs so they don't die out or get lost.
Maddie
Question for ALL the mods, if I may. Wondering if your attraction to women is different, or affects you differently, from your attraction to men? I'm in my mid 20s and realizin that maybe I just haven't picked up the signs on my attraction to women and now I'm just sorting it all out. But it feels different from my attraction to men and idk what that means yet so I was wonderin if I could hear your feelings and experiences? Thank you!
PS for the question to all the mods, I am a cis woman, if that helps.
My attraction to women is definitely different from my attraction to men. I think it’s a little bit less sexual, but it’s just as strong.
Max
Hi, I had a question. What's the difference between bisexuality & pansexuality? Like I get that bisexuality is being attracted to both sexes, male & female & pansexuality is being attracted to everyone but like could you specify? Like I can't quite understand the line between those two. Thank you!
Bisexual is being attracted to more than one gender. Pansexual is being attracted to all genders or attraction regardless of gender. The only semantic difference is that bisexuals aren’t necessarily attracted to all genders. But that’s in the definition.
The difference between bisexuals who are attracted to all genders and pansexuals mostly comes down to personal preference. For instance, the word bisexual has more of a history and is more well-known, so that’s appealing to some people. Also bisexuals might prefer the word bisexual because they don’t feel like they are attracted to people “regardless of gender”. Gender might play an important part in their attraction. Whereas the word pansexual often requires explaining, and it’s appealing to some people for that reason, because it’s designed to challenge the gender binary, and some pansexuals like that they get to explain that to people. In some ways it’s like a political statement within an identity.
The line between the two is definitely very blurred, and some people even like to say they’re both.
Max
Hi, so I'm interested in finding more LGBT-related movies. I know that Netflix has a good selection of LGBT movies, but I'm a little nervous about in-depth sex scenes. Nothing against sex or people's choices regarding it, I promise. It's just watching it isn't really my cup of tea. Can you recommend any that focus more on the romance, or like, the personalities and minds of the people involved? I hope my phrasing here isn't stupid or offensive. Thanks for your time!
I’m pretty bad about LGBT cinema, but maybe our followers have some suggestions? I’d be interested in this kind of thing, too, tbh.
KC