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[bi-dykes]

Bi Trans Percy “Persephone” Jackson Icons! 💙💜🩷🤍🩷💜💙

PJ edits made by @punkeropercyjackson !

Flag made by @maxpawb !

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Bi Transbian Pride Flag

I combined the @bi-lesbian​ flag with a trans woman/transfeminine flag. This time for trans bi lesbians/trans lesbis ❤︎

- AP

[pepperoni-bread]

good luck, babe !

[biwoc]

The Myth of Slacktivism

BIWOC provides BOTH offline and online support groups. We welcome or community members to engage in either or both safe spaces. Safety first! 

Offline activism is potentially dangerous. Participating in events puts certain populations at risk. For some, simply stepping outside of the house is a potentially endangering endeavor, let alone protesting, marching, or calling attention to oneself. Women who participate in marches to end rape culture are often catcalled, have slurs hurled at them, and risk threats of rape and violence. Queer people attending pride events run the risk of queerphobic attacks, slurs, verbal harassment, and potential violence. If someone is not out and they are discovered to be involved in queer events, they may face loss of job, house, family, and more. This is not just from opposition either. People face potential danger from police and military for protesting in offline spaces.

[biwoc]

Boston Bi Support Groups

For over 30 years the Boston bisexual community have been offering support groups for bisexual, biromantic, biaromantic, pansexual, non-monosexual queer, and fluid identified trans, cis, and non-binary community members. Today Boston has six Bisexual Support Groups, a fact that we are truly honored and excited to share with you. We look forward to meeting you and provide you with the support you deserve. You are not alone! 

For more information, up to date schedules, and to RSVP for one or more of our welcoming support groups and fun social events please visit: http://www.meetup.com/Bi-Community-Activities/  

1. Coffee&Chat for Bi women of Color, monthly support group facilitated by Gwendolyn Fougy Henry, EdM, MSLIS from Bisexual Women of Color (BIWOC). Cambridge, Massachusetts. (currently suspended)

2. Tea with Bi Women Partnered with Men, bi monthly support group co-facilitated by Gwendolyn Fougy Henry, EdM, MSLIS from Bisexual Women of Color (BIWOC) and Debbie Block-Schwenk from the Bisexual Resource Center. Somerville, Massachusetts. 

3. Married but not Straight, monthly support group facilitated by Dr. Denise Garrow-Pruitt. Metro-west section of Massachusetts. 

4. Bisexual and Bi-curious Men’s Group at Fenway Community Health, monthly support group facilitated by Charles Strauss, LICSW. Boston, Massachusetts. 

5. BLiSS, monthly support group facilitated by Bisexual Resource Center volunteer staff. Boston, Massachusetts. 

6. Young BLiSS, monthly support group for facilitated by Bisexual Resource Center volunteer staff. Boston, Massachusetts.

[qtwocfruit]

I think"Bi-Curious" is abuse.

I'm a bisexual trans woman of color. This intuition is all my own.

I think "bi-curious" is abusive in the manner that it is commonly used by heterosexuals, gays and lesbians. I think the implied availability of that term is a problem.

Say you're partial to the term: It implies personal exploration, a hypothetical - it's a light-sounding term. As light and assimilating as it gets for any queer identity. You can affirm the term and then shrink away calling it all a phase, after all, you were just curious. 

The term is also used the other way, conflated with bisexuality: The stepping-stone coming out story often goes" "I was scared, therefore I came out as bi before gay/lesbian". 

For me, the fact that we say "bi-curious" and not "gay-curious" is significant. I don't understand why that's okay.

You know what? If you want to paint a harmless face on your sexual inclination, use your own identity.

I think I have no sympathy for people who've used the term. I don't care how scared you were, I don't care what danger you think you've mitigated. I feel so strongly about this, that I hope that someone with a bigger imagination than mine creates a new slur for it. I dream of a slur so crude, that would it function in a way that gays, lesbians and heterosexuals finally feel an inkling of shame for being inauthentic. 

A world without the "stepping stone" has /never/ been unthinkable. If you're desperate to tell the world you're experimenting and trying things, try "lesbian-curious" for example. Yes, it sounds severe because of the semantic exclusion of men, but its entirely possible to be /curious/ about an exclusion without necessarily committing to it forever. It's more accurate, you're not deceiving anyone, or acting on fear. The omission of men from your life might be for you or it might not. But "lesbian-curious" retains the full capacity to be speculative and more importantly, it has nothing to do with bisexuality, and that's /good/.

The ghost of "bi-curious" is very costly for us, we live in its shadow. We could assert bisexual identities forever, yet it's implied we're still, somehow, discovering ourselves. No, we've found ourselves. Period. You and I are simply, permanently different.  

How I'm situated: I am a South American trans woman of color. According to statistics, women like me have 35-year average life expectancy. I'm currently 29. Assuming life calls my bluff I have 6 years to live, maybe less, given the way 2015 is looking so far for TWOC violence. I can affirm that I've been bisexual my whole life and i'll affirm it in spite of the statistic and its promise of an early death - right until the bitter end. No last-minute polarization, no doubts about sexual identity. 

In closing, I pray "bi-curious" goes away. I pray its conflation to "bisexual" goes away. I pray for harsh social consequences for inauthenticity. I pray that the next time someone drops the stepping-stone coming-out story, that it gains them a sour rejection from their audience. I pray that the assumption of our cultural availability becomes poisonous to those who invoke it, because that is abuse authored by gays and lesbians and we are its recipients. 

We don't owe gays and lesbians anything. We don't have to be accessible to straight people. We have a singular, private sexual identity - we can reject "bi-curious" and the role of being a holding place for all sexual discovery. That's too big for us, too big for one person and too convenient for others. Lesbians and gays are too foreign? Let them own that for a change. It's not our responsibility. It's also NOT our responsibility to be a welcoming exploratory space for straight people.

[equalitymi-blog]

#BiTrans – Post, status update and tweet affirming statements and images about being bi* and trans*

[fckh8-tees]

It's just so good that Ellen is out there as an example!  LGBTees, Tanks & Hoodies @http://FCKH8.com/