hi uh, i really like your writing so,, can you please write some headcanons for paul matthews or john mcnamara with a trans s/o? its okay if not ofc!!
Aww thank you! I will do both actually
Paul Matthews x trans!reader
Very supportive but also very cautious at first (before you two started dating)
He really likes you and is scared he’ll say or do something wrong
It's nothing major he just knows how awkward he can get and fears the worst as one does
With time the fear fades and you are left with the most loving boyfriend you can imagine
In general Paul is a very respectful guy so you can expect nothing less from him now
Knows you can handle yourself but if you say as much as a word he will fight any bigot you face
Verbally of course, it's Paul we’re talking about
Always ready to give you space or listen to you vent
He might try to cheer you up then
But we all know he’s not good at feeling feelings and all that
So he’ll give up before he’ll make it worse and just be your shoulder to cry on
If you plan to undergo any medical procedures he’ll read up on the subject
Generally, Paul doesn't ask a lot of questions
Not because he doesn't care but he simply doesn't want you to feel like you have to explain yourself to him all the time
So unless it's something he really wants to make sure about, he won't bother you with demands for answers, especially if the questions are more private
Also! If you want to go to a pride parade he absolutely supports it and will even accompany you
Crowds, loud noises and strangers touching him is not something he dreams about but it's a fair price to pay for supporting you and being a good boyfriend
Oh, and if you are ftm you can bet all his clothes are yours now as well if you are in a hurry and wish to borrow something
John McNamara x trans!reader
Two words
Loud & proud
Believe me, he makes sure you know that in his eyes you are the most attractive, amazing and valuable person to walk on earth
If anyone tries to suggest to you otherwise, especially a transphobe, he will not hesitate to deal with that accordingly
He doesn't get into fights, he doesn't think those people are worth your time but we all have seen him and know well that he doesn't need to resort to violence to accomplish his goals
Your bf’s just naturally intimidating like that
He’s very encouraging too, always ready to listen to any doubts you might have
On your bad days or when you just feel extremely insecure he’s very patient and will be there for you
I feel like, in general, he would express his love in the form of encouraging words and compliments so you know what to expect
On his days off he definitely wears those trans ally t-shirts with Facebook-shirt fonts
Again, if you wish to go to pride he will 100% support the idea
Want a flashy outfit? Go for it! Making a banner? He’ll help you carry and transport it. A flag? He bought two already
He might seem very obnoxious about it but I assure you that to him it's just a normal part of your relationship. He’s just,, like that
Plus I hc him as a fellow enneagram type two and I feel like, since he doesn't always know how to show you his support, he would see pride as the positive emotion to express, make you feel proud of who you are and showing you that he is proud of you too
Not sure if that makes sense, probably not but, oh well
