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blinkpinkinc replied to your photo:blinkpinkinc made a gemsona and that inspired me...

FABOOOOOOOOOO

thaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaank!

i'm thinking that their story is that they were left out of the gems for being somehow fake so they decided to set out on their own and they gathered a buncha other "fake" gemstones like herkimer diamond and tigers' eye and stuff on their ship

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iambickilometer replied to your post: I just realized that my confusion over...

i have a similar deal and. i dunno i feel like ace isn’t quite right for me, even grey-a. not that this has to be true for anyone else. i think there’s multiple ways to have complications with sexuality is all

yeah definitely. I'm not sure if "gray-asexual" really fits with me either—for me, my conceptualization of my sexuality includes a number of dimensions. there's a dimension of what genders I'm attracted to (like, currently it's "not dudes") and a dimension of whether or not I even have any kind of attraction at all that functions on a separate axis. sometimes I'm like lol no I'm not asexual at ALL and other times I'm like ugh I'm totally ace right now. so like, I feel like they're all bundled together, so "gray-A" may be useful in describing a midpoint but it doesn't quite capture the fluidity of it either?

blinkpinkinc replied to your post: I just realized that my confusion over...

as far as i know, you’re in the clear! that seems to be my husband’s experience as well and he identifies as gray ace or demisexual. (and i’m sure my sexuality was influenced by my trauma, but it’s still my sexuality)

for sure for sure. I used to have a really high sex drive until several traumatic things happened, and now it's hit or miss, combined also maybe with age where I just don't care as much as I used to either.

tallteenturtle replied to your post: I just realized that my confusion over...

If you feel the definition of gray ace fits you, then you can consider yourself gray ace regardless of the reasons (trauma, ect). I identify as gray-ace because I have some sex drive and sometimes attraction but usually not. Its kinda fluid.

I definitely feel that fluidity! like what I just said to iambickilometer. I just felt like an imposter for saying that I'm sometimes-asexual but not always-asexual, but now I'm seeing that you don't have to be always-asexual to be able to call yourself asexual (which is what "gray-A" seems to be saying?)

zombierooster replied to your post: I just realized that my confusion over...

idk i sometimes have a sex drive and i still consider myself asexual; but i separate sex drive and sexuality if that makes sense ???

yeah that makes sense. it seems like they're two sliding scales for me

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thought-ripplesreplied to your post:10 favorite characters, in any order, then tag 10...

All of these are wonderful! :D But—which Doctor is your favorite regeneration? There are twelve to pick from now XD

blinkpinkinc replied to your post:10 favorite characters, in any order, then tag 10...

pERCY BLAKENEY!!!!!!!! *screamflailswoon*

Re: Doctor Who - I'm going to admit that I haven't seen the new guy yet, and that I've only seen a handful of classic Doctors.  But when I think "Doctor Who" David Tennent is who always pops into my head.  I think he's my fave.  I also really like Tom Baker (of course!) and Jon Pertwee.  Peter Davison I like because he was my mom's Doctor back in the day, so I have some attachment to him for my mom's sake.

Re: Percy - I KNOW RIGHT!?  Percy is my blatant wish-fulfillment, perfect-man character.  *dreamy sigh*

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julian secretly getting a little thrill when he's going fast on his segway, hits a bump and gets some air. ah the thrills of the frontier!!

This is where heroes are made.

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blinkpinkinc replied to your post: “/thinks about shaak ti/kit fisto /slowly explodes”:

had to like this repeatedly sorry

i am sO FOR JEDI HAVING QUEERPLATONIC THINGS OKAY

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sun--flowerings replied to your post “stardusted replied to your post: sailoruuranus replied to your post...”

I've always thought guanyin to be genderless, though I'm not sure where I learned to think that

blinkpinkinc replied to your post “stardusted replied to your post: sailoruuranus replied to your post...”

i remember reading about them (her?) when i was tiny and just being fascinated.

yeah and I think the depictions vary across cultures too. actually the first time guanyin really popped onto my radar was when I studied in singapore, haha. I recall being really drawn to guanyin when we were visiting, idk, maybe it was haw par villa? or somewhere nearby? and I'm still very much interested

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if your queerness was a landscape, what would it look like?

fields of delicate flowers gilded by the setting sun probably. flickr isn't yielding any pictures that approximate what I have in my head, haha.