Where did you go on Day 1?
LORI: I had two breakfast prep meetings before my 11:30AM theater collective’s weekly meeting. At 8:30 AM, I met up with my writer friend at the closest black-owned restaurant to the theater collective, which is on Gower and Sunset: Roscoe’s House of Chicken and Waffles. Being a vegetarian, there were limited options for me, so I had scrambled cheesy eggs and toast with a coffee.
In my research, I learned that the 27th Street Bakery is the largest manufacturer of sweet potato pies on the west coast, and has been black-family-owned for three generations. The place has been around since the 1930′s and drawing in customers for its famous sweet potato pies since 1956. I really wanted to bring a sweet potato pie to my theater collective’s meeting in order to entice others to jump aboard this challenge. Because they aren’t open on Sundays, I ordered a pie and a cobbler for delivery on Saturday, but they didn’t arrive in time. Instead, I bought an entire sweet potato pie at Roscoe’s so that I wouldn’t show up empty-handed. I'm still determined to try the pies at 27th Street Bakery, but this one didn’t disappoint.
My second meeting was at a coffee shop, but I didn’t spend money there (my friend did) because it wasn’t black-owned. We have yet to find a black-owned coffee shop. Hive mind - send suggestions our way!
REBECCA: We drove all the way down to Compton to Hooper’s Shell, the only #BOB gas station in California that we could find online - about a 35 minute drive in minimal traffic from Los Feliz. (If there are others, let us know! We’d love to check them out). The store itself was closed, no attendants present, but there was a clear sign on the window stating that this was very specifically Hooper’s Shell. There were a couple vehicles trying to get gas: A girl in fro and sweatpants tried a few different pumps and was about to drive off as I pulled in: she kindly told me not to waste my time, but I pulled over anyway to wait for Tenn and Lori. An old green pickup truck with an elderly black couple inside who drove painstakingly to every single pump to try to pay with cash. Two middle-aged dudes filling up on opposite sides of the pump and swapping general chit-chat while they waited. A trio of boys who sauntered through and reminded me of my own brothers - presumably looking for Gatorades and candy, at least that’s what my brothers would be doing at a gas station, along with buying scratch-off lotto tickets - and sauntered right on by when they saw the closed sign on the door.
TENN: It was empty, and the office was closed. Probably for Sunday Service. Only one pump was working, and it didn’t take my credit card, but thankfully Rebecca offered to let me use hers. I encourage people to try to do this challenge with friends or a support group. It helps!
There was a steady stream of people stopping by the station. Most of them asked us if the pumps worked, which implied that maybe they were new to the business or area.
REBECCA: Through the next thirty minutes that it took the three of us to wait in line, gas up one at a time, and figure out which credit cards would work, quite a few cars pulled over to the Shell for gas. At one point, almost every pump had at least one vehicle trying to run debit and credit cards and calling it out, sharing info. One pump worked on both sides for credit cards only, so I got in line to fill up my half-tank. In the meantime, several cars left without even bothering to wait. And even when my credit cards worked for me, Tenn’s and Lori’s wouldn’t, and mine wouldn’t swipe twice. Thankfully we scrounged up enough working cards, saluted #BLM, and drove across town to the black-owned grocery store for a snack and some supplies.
LORI: Then, we drove to Simply Wholesome. When investigating black-owned grocery stores, SImply Wholesome was the only one we could find, so we planned our Sunday around stocking up on food for the week. I want to mention a black-owned food co-op in the works called SoLA Food Co-op. We couldn’t find an address and, after reaching out and quickly hearing back, we learned that’s because they need some more member-owners in order to get a brick-and-mortar going:
We are working hard to open a co-op, but we don't have the store yet! The area where you are looking is our ideal target area. Please subscribe to our email list on our website by clicking on the pop-up that says "Get Hip", that way you'll be informed of our progress. Then, please join the co-op! We need 300 member-owners to take it to the capitalization phase, where we actually begin the site selection process. Right now we're 99 member-owners strong. Thanks for your support.
Back to Simply Wholesome. The place was right up my alley - they sold books, health and beauty supplies, crystals and pre-packaged vegetarian food on one side of the retro 60′s-looking building, and on the other side featured a full patio and outdoor cafe. Lots of windows gave it a sunny atmosphere and the place was hopping with a friendly, happy, laid back energy. We were very comfortable because of the welcoming, inclusive environment. The service at Simply Wholesome was excellent - the employees came around to check on us, deliver our food, make sure we were satisfied, clear plates, etc. multiple times.
REBECCA: The shop/café combination sports a really nice patio, big windows overlooking a busy corner of Slausen, and an overall vibe of happy comfort - a variety of people eating, talking, laughing. We ordered smoothies - people rave about them online but they were really more like those super sugar-laden 711 slurpees - be forewarned that anything “blueberry” comes out electric blue, which can’t possibly be natural unless they’re using those cochineal bugs used in blue dye. The shake list is long and delightful and there’s a pretty big vegetarian selection. I personally loved the mac n cheese and the almost nutty cornbread. The peas and tofu were also good - I didn’t slather them in mayonnaise so according to Tenn I was missing out a little. But the banana pudding that Lori ordered was just as legit as promised: a hearty graham-style cracker on top of a creamy pudding on top of diced banana wedges. It came together really well.
LORI: I ordered the Caribbean tacos with tofu (which came with rice and a salad), a strawberry smoothie (#8 on the menu) that the friendly employee suggested to me, and vegan banana pudding for dessert. The vegan banana pudding was SO GOOD. I love that they have an expansive vegetarian menu, but meat options, as well.
TENN: THEY HAD BLACK EYED PEAS, FRIED OKRA, AND SWEET TEA (in a bottle, but still.)
LORI: There was a huge crowd in the cafe area - as three white gals, we were clearly in the minority which is an important thing to note. I take for granted what it feels like to exist in the majority, and noticed myself feeling self-conscious because we stood out as different. It made me wonder...what if every white person in America could somehow experience the feeling of being at the mercy of the people in the majority - the distinct feeling of not speaking the language or being outnumbered or designated as “other”? Would there be more understanding and empathy?
REBECCA: After we ate, we shopped in the grocery for lunch supplies for the week. Unfortunately they carry no produce, which makes up 85% of my weekly shopping, but I did snag some hemp milk (my first), some Heritage cereal, some GF pasta, and a few specialty Lara bars that Lassen’s and TJ’s don’t carry.
LORI: I stocked up on food for the week - as a vegetarian, I was in heaven. I’ve never seen so many freezers full of vegetarian and fake-meat products. Seriously, if you don’t eat meat, you need to visit this place. I saw so many vegetarian brands I had never seen before. I do wish they carried fresh vegetables, but I was able to buy some pre-packaged meals to get me through the week. The cashier also threw in a free Simply Wholesome burlap bag (for those who don’t live in Los Angeles, we have to buy our bags or bring our own re-usable ones, so this was a total score). If I didn’t have to drive 40 minutes away to Inglewood, I would definitely visit Simply Wholesome on the regular.
TENN: I bought groceries to prepare pasta that will last me for most of me at home dinners during the week, but the grocery store we visited didn’t have produce. For me, that was fresh vegetables. Mushrooms. Zucchini. I’m making do with a can of whole tomatoes, and adding flavor with spices from the collection in my cabinet.
What did you like the most?
REBECCA: Getting to go on a mini adventure and break bread with some really great girls. Also, so many people were so friendly - these are parts of town where I rarely find myself but I found myself exchanging lovely smiles and hellos with people in the parking lots that I don’t normally experience in my normal haunts.
LORI: The vibe of Simply Wholesome, exploring parts of Los Angeles that were new to me, and the vegan banana pudding.
TENN: I loved the food at Simply Wholesome. It was everything that had been missing in my life. I also liked checking out new areas and businesses, and doing something meaningful with my friends.
What was the most challenging aspect of Day 1?
REBECCA: Having to drive across town for basic necessities, and not being able to buy any fresh produce.
Do you think that BOB will challenge your work/week day compared to the weekends?
REBECCA: It’s going to be a challenge not being able to step out of my Encino office for lunch and particularly coffee this week. I’ll have to bring my own coffee in the mornings (a great Ethiopian, preexisting bag I have from Trystero) It’s also a challenge not being able to purchase fresh raw foods from a BOB. I wouldn’t be able to sustain this challenge fully unless I found at least a farmer’s market vendor or something. The shop did have coffee ground, but I was unfamiliar with it, they don’t carry beans, and I’m not sure it’s technically a BOB company. These are challenges for me that I’ll be able to adjust to this week, but would be harder to sustain long-term.
LORI: It really just requires more planning, and there aren’t many BoB (that I’ve been able to find) in the Valley where I work and live, so I don’t have many options, especially as a vegetarian.
TENN: You don’t register how difficult this challenge is until you’re stuck in the moment needing something that none of the black owned businesses you’ve researched sell. Also, I’ve found that work functions are almost impossible to work black owned businesses into if they’re not super conveniently located. It’s Los Angeles, and no one wants to spend an extra forty-five minutes in the car if they can drive for five minutes instead.
How are you preparing for day 2?
REBECCA: Packing a lunch, getting up a little early to make coffee.
LORI: I’m bringing two of my pre-packaged vegetarian meals from Simply Wholesome to work. I have to speak at a college right after work, so I have to consider my dinner in advance.
TENN: Same tactics. Google. Yelp reviews. Clear planning. Keeping my calendar and notes on hand has been really crucial.
Is #BOB coming up in conversation throughout the day? What are people’s reaction when you tell them about it?
REBECCA: So far, so good. My girlfriend is obviously supportive, but not participating. However, she promised to bring me a plate of leftovers from her catering at work so that I could have a lunch tomorrow without spending money at a non-BOB. My mom was nominally supportive on the phone when I mentioned it in passing yesterday. And the coolest one of all, I think, is my lovely friend Victoria wh found herself in the midst of a hating-Trump spiral and wanted to do something more proactive and kind, saw what we were doing through social media and decided to do her own activism. She’s researching one charity/nonprofit org per day from now until the election, sharing her info, and committing to support them in a small financial way. She began today with Doctors Without Borders, an org that I heavily support and promote as well, and gave us a shout out as to part of her inspiration. I’m pumped that people are using social media to activate and share that energy with others!
LORI: Lots of people have said that this is a good thing that we’re doing, and while it is cool to have support, it shouldn’t be an anomaly but rather something I should have already been doing. And not only with black-owned businesses, but with businesses owned by all people of color (would those challenges be more or less difficult, I wonder?). I’ve also had a few people express concern for my safety while exploring unfamiliar areas of Los Angeles. To be honest, I see that as pandering to unfounded fear-based excuses - if we all just stay in our bubble and stick with what we know, then that really just perpetuates the system currently at play, right? I’m not looking to always be comfortable within my own bubble, that’s not the point; I can’t help but think that comfort feeds apathy and limits growth.
Overall, I’ve been really happy with the reaction on Facebook - we already have some excellent ideas and suggestions coming in, all of which fuels our fire! We want this to be a conversation.
TENN: I talked a lot with my mom, and even more so to my girlfriend about what challenge I was participating in throughout the week. I knew that it would become a larger part of my conversation, but I’ve realized that the more I learn – the more I want to share.