Why do I want to have a crush so badly? Any small amount of feelings I have for a person my mind has to jumps and think maybe I have a crush, and I just don't know why I am so desperate for one. I've had a few crushes before, some different genders, and one worked out but we broke up. I need to know why I'm just so desperate -Bonbun.
Wanting to have a crush is not a bad thing, even if you don't believe it will work out. A lot of people want crushes and want to like someone, it's no uncommon and it's okay :)
When you have a crush you have someone you care about, someone you want to be around and feel happy being around. When you have a crush you have a reason to smile and something to look froward to every day. You have someone you can put your energy and thought towards, someone who can make you feel good by just thinking about them. Wanting a crush is not only wanting to like someone, iit is having someone to give you reason and to make you happy. When you have a crush there isn't a big commitment and since commitment scares a lot for people, when you have a crush it's like that but without the commitment and without them knowing. You just admire from a far.
What I'm trying to say is it's okay to want a crush. Because in reality you're not just wanting a crush, you're wanting everything that comes with liking someone. Everyone wants those things and you just happen to find them when you have a crush. So go find yourself a crush and enjoy life!